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So, this 9 month sleep regression

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Ijustworemytrenchcoat · 05/05/2014 10:16

Hello, I'm assuming my son is going through this at the moment. I've read about this stage in The Wonder Weeks and would like to know if when he gets through it he will go back to normal. I have grown rather fond of his sleepiness and am not too keen on this new turn of events. I feel like a fish out of water and am unsure of myself.

For about a week he has been waking several times in the night, but going over again quickly and easily, but the night before last it took forever to get him to sleep. He normally self settles, I might have to go up to him once or twice but usually he goes right over. The other night he was just wired, I tried every trick in my repertoire and eventually had to take him downstairs to calm him. He was so tired though, writhing around in his cot and making little moany tired sounds but just seemed unable to switch off. He eventually fell asleep at ten, two hours after his normal bedtime.

The next day it took me ages to get him to fall asleep for his morning nap which he usually can't wait for. I had to pick him up and rock him. He would fall asleep but then wake with a scream. Again today he alternated between lying quietly and crying. When it was obvious he wasn't going to settle I picked him up and he snuggled into my shoulder and fell asleep instantly, giggling to himself.

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littleowl14 · 05/05/2014 21:37

sorry it's a bugger. the 14 mo one is worse. he had to be attached to me all night. Confused Wine Thanks

littleowl14 · 05/05/2014 21:38

it does pass though Grin Grin honestly! ds is great now at 18 mo!

(waiting fir the next one.....)

Ijustworemytrenchcoat · 06/05/2014 20:26

Good to know it passes!

I had the before one month check with the Health Visitor today and her suggestion was not to pick him up. Will give that one a swerve. I'm quite happy to hold him and rock him and hope that as he was self soothing before he will go back to that eventually.

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FarToGo · 06/05/2014 22:15

I'm in the throes of the 8/9 month regression. It has lasted 2 months so far.
Today she has had 2 half hour naps, fed to sleep at1830, woke again at 1930 and still going. Every night is different.
Every day I am optimistic it will pass.
Every night I feel more dejected and exhausted.
I need help.

carolinementzer · 07/05/2014 10:32

I found acupressure helped to calm them down quickly into a sleepy state if they get too wired, then self soothing becomes easier.
Here's the technique I use -
mydaughterwontsleep.com/2013/12/27/the-sleep-inducing-power-of-acupressure/
Teething was another big obstacle for us and would disturb my DD's sleep all the time. Is you DD suffering from this at the mo? I do find they become more fussy and less easy to settle.

Also when they can finally move easily - my DD was always standing up in her cot looking pleased with herself in the middle of the night - cheeky monkey.

mrsspagbol · 07/05/2014 11:27

Caroline it's like you have my DD! I also call her cheeky monkey Grin

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