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Why won't she go to bed? and what can I do about it? Help please!

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Linnet · 08/08/2006 23:23

Dd2 is 2 and has always been a good sleeper. since she was born she's been put to bed in her cot in a dark room and settled herself to sleep.

Until last Tuesday!

Last Tuesday when she was put to bed she started crying and then climbed out of the cot, she's never climbed out of the cot before but now she has it down to a fine art.
She cried and cried and cried and was getting herself all upset. We took her back to bed everytime she got up but she just climbed straight back out again. Then she started asking to go sleep in my bed, so I took her to my room, by this time it was 10:30pm, and lay down beside her and she just kept getting up. Eventually I got her to sleep in my bed, at 11:30pm, and then moved her back to her cot once she was asleep. I hoped that this was just a one off but sadly it has gone one every single night since last Tuesday.

I've tried being patient and kind and putting her back to bed. I'd tried getting angry with her, I know not a good tactic but it was getting ridiculous, and still it doesn't work.

We've tried keeping her awake all day in the hopes that she'll be so exhausted that she'll go to sleep but it still doesn't work.

Please Help Me!!!

Dd1 goes back to school next week and I go back to work and I really don't need to still be trying to get a 2 year to bed at 11pm at night when we all have to be up early in the morning.

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proudofmyboobs · 08/08/2006 23:31

I'd keep returning her to be honest. Now she knows you give in the first time and took her to your bed she will keep at it as she knows you will take her to your bed. I know it seems like the easiest thing to do in the middle of the night and it probably was at that time, but it's not good in the longrun if you're not comfortable with that, if you wanted her to sleep with you then that's an entirely different kettle of fish

satine · 08/08/2006 23:32

Must go to bed, so can't write too much now but I am in exactly the same boat - my 2 yr old screams like a banshee when we try to put her down - getting pretty fed up with it. Will check back in tomorrow!

Linnet · 08/08/2006 23:34

But it's not the middle of the night she's getting up and demanding to go into our bed, it's when she's getting put to bed at 7pm.

It's as if she's scared to be in her room but she's been in it for ages and there are no new items in her room that might be scaring her so I just don't know what has caused this.

But thanks for your post.

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sahmtotwo · 08/08/2006 23:34

Maybe she is wanting to move to a bed now. My eldest did this at about this age and as soon as we moved him into a bed he settled down quite happily.

Linnet · 08/08/2006 23:37

You know dh and I were talking about moving her to a bed tonight. Dd1 would like bunk beds for her room so when she gets them dd2 will get dd1's bed. I guess we'll need to look into that sooner rather than later.

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