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2 nights done - DS out our bed but it's not going well...

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SwivelHips · 13/08/2013 13:11

DS is 14 mths, and boy what a shit sleeper he is. Anyhoo, had to end co-sleeping because he needs the extra space and he's waking every bloody hour for a bf, at my wits end so something has to change.
Basically DH and I are doing it in shifts. We put DS down asleep in his cot, he can stay like that for anything to 1hr to 3hrs, no pattern to this. All the other wakenings we put him on our chest until he falls back asleep - then back asleep.
Trouble is though he's so unsettled, especially from about 4am - not a chance can I get him back in that cot.
Is it a backward step if I give him a bottle at this time? Incidentally he still screams out for boobs during each wake up.
I was also thinking of getting rid of cot and putting his mattress on the floor - does that make a difference?
Do we need to start putting him down awake in his cot? I know he will scream the house down for hours if we try this on the other hand it kind of makes sense if we needs us to cuddle him back to sleep.
Sorry bit of a garbled post. I'm at work tomorrow so hoping for an easy time tonight...

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silverangel · 14/08/2013 07:34

That sounds tough. I am absolutley no exoert but some sort of gradual retreat method? We took it in shifts to sleep on the floor in DTs bedroom - moving from picking them up, to just shushing to absolutley no interaction at all. It will take a while for him to get it though, I guess especially as he's been used to co-sleeping?

SwivelHips · 14/08/2013 19:29

Thanks Angel. Will start gradual retreat Friday night, these nights are just about stopping the bf. He only tried once last night, felt awful, but i've little milk anyway so its definitley for comfort only.

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RayofSun · 14/08/2013 19:35

Shamelessly watching this thread. Have same problem with my 16 mo who used to sleep straight from 8pm til 4pm. Are you thinking of feeding him cos he might be hungry? I often wonder whether that would settle my LO as she does the same, asking for milk every hour, but it does feel like a huge step backwards. Shock

SwivelHips · 14/08/2013 19:44

Hmm I dont know what I was thinking really, I'm so tired I cant think straight, I just thought it would settle him. I'm pretty sure he's not hungry he's just really unsettled.
He's a good eater in the day, then has 8oz at about 7pm. Last night I didn't give him any bf just offered water (he refused) but he was playing happily this morning at 730 waiting to go to nursery. I didn't give him food because I forgot basically (normally I would bf all night) and he definitely didn't seem hungry.

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MonstersDontCry · 14/08/2013 19:48

Had the exact same thing with my DD until she was 18 months. She is now nearly 2 and sleeps in her own bed. Don't have time to post properly now but I'll cone back later.

SwivelHips · 14/08/2013 19:51

Oh yes Monsters please do...need some motivation here

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MoreSnowPlease · 14/08/2013 19:53

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SwivelHips · 14/08/2013 20:22

Yip, only recently too, although I forget now which is which. I've printed off the infamous mn thread "what worked for us", printed it off months ago but now really need to try it.

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