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9 month old: angel baby to new born sleeper - am I just making it worse?

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MalcolmTuckersMyHero · 23/06/2013 16:04

From about 7-8 weeks, DS was a great sleeper - massive evening cluster feeder, sleeping through the night and by 3 months was doing a 12 hour stretch every night very much instigated by him, no sleep training or CC. Around 7 months, teething started with a vengeance and he was waking in the night every 2-3 hours and I was largely BF'ing him to comfort him/get back to sleep. Two months and 4 teeth later, he's still waking every 3-4 hours and I'm beginning to wonder if we'll ever get back to the hallowed sleeping through ground and am after any advice as to how I can best remove the rod I've inserted in my back.

He's EBF (every 3-4 hours during the day) and we're doing BLW - he's getting better as it, but as with his milk feeds, he seems to take the minimum required to get him to the next feed. He goes down about 7:30pm, wakes at around 11pm, then again sometime between 2 and 4am, sometimes twice, and then is up about 7:00am, give or take. During the night, he wakes, feeds in about 10mins and is back asleep, so it's not like I'm up for hours rocking him back to sleep and I know in many respects it's not that bad. But he teased us in the early days with his angelic sleeping and as he's BF, it's all on me and I'm just wondering if there's anything I should try/be doing to get us back to those blissful long sleeps...even just a 6 hour stint! I've tried putting the monitor music on during the night and seeing if he'll re-settle, but he doesn't. He's very busy crawling, standing and cruising around. He seems genuinely hungry at the 3am feed though not massively so at the 11pm one and doesn't seem to want to cluster feed in the evenings as he used to. Is it sleep regression? Have I just made it worse by feeding him, so now he expects it? Can I change that? Any help much appreciated.

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HearMyRoar · 23/06/2013 19:03

Well, 9 months is prime sleep regression time so I think its completely normal for him to be waking a few times for a feed at this age. They are learning and growing so much some babies just need the food.

Personally I'm in the ride it out school of parenting and coslept until dd magically stopped feeding and started sleeping through around 14 months.

Sorry, maybe not much help there...

misselphaba · 23/06/2013 19:08

I was wondering this exact same thing about 9 month old last week but after 9 weeks of terrible sleeping -not settling, frequent night wakings and complete refusal to go anywhere near the cot during the day -DD is back to normal with no help from me. In fact, her day sleep is much better than before so maybe the last 9 weeks were worth it? No fucking way, but it is comforting to know that if it does happen again, all the bad habits we got into have not had a lasting effect. The many rods I was convinced I was making have not materialised.

MalcolmTuckersMyHero · 23/06/2013 22:04

Thanks. I'm very much of the riding it out school too, just started getting the fear today that I was making the situation worse and he'd never sleep through again. Good to know the rods can be imaginary and in the meantime I'll continue to keep the matchsticks handy Wink

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KB02 · 23/06/2013 23:10

I'm another one who doesn't believe in rods. I reckon children just do things their way. Our dc co slept for months but is back in his cot now. people would say once he was in our bed there was no going back - wrong !

misselphaba · 24/06/2013 13:15

I definitely had The Fear too. I was becoming obsessed by sleep. A quick look at my Google history for the last few weeks confirms that!

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