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What would you do if you had my 11 month old?

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Judyandherdreamofhorses · 27/05/2013 13:19

I'd like to hear a range of opinions as I'm really at the end of my tether and think I might have to Do Something now.

DS is BF and won't take a bottle. He eats solids well.

His sleep has always been dreadful. He is mostly BF to sleep for naps, or has them in the car, sling or buggy. They're usually only short - 30 mins I suppose. For the last couple of weeks I was managing to get him to have one good 1-2 hour nap in his cot, either morning or afternoon but never both.

Nights, well, he's never slept longer than 4 hours at a time, usually 2-3, this week 30 mins-1 hour. I'm not sure how I can cope with it any more. Admittedly, he's been poorly for a few days. He's better now but the sleep isn't. When he does wake, it's taking me up to an hour to get him back to sleep again.

He won't co-sleep, so that's not an option.

If left, or even just put into his cot awake or not completely asleep, he screams and screams, kicks and thrashes around and doesn't stop.

He sleeps with a comforter and sucks his thumb.

Any non-judgey ideas? What sort of routine do other 11 month olds have? I night weaned DD at 13 months and did CC with her at 15 months.

Thanks for reading. It's long!

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CountryMama · 30/05/2013 03:32

My health visitors were surprisingly helpful and support... I would say that if you're struggling in the day then really you need to brave it and sleep training him. My boy was up every 2 hours and my driving was getting dangerous because of lack of sleep. I went in and reassured him but refused to give him milk. One night of hell and then he slept through!! The health visitors said the key was getting him to sleep in the first place without milk... I think that was true and a good place to start! Good luck.

Nicolaeus · 30/05/2013 09:30

That sounds great. I really liked AG - especially the advice on how to fix your own ruined sleep patterns!

Fingers crossed it continues to work

bouncysmiley · 30/05/2013 09:40

11 months is a bit old to be introducing a bottle have you tried milk in a soppy cup? Gradual withdrawal worked for us

Judyandherdreamofhorses · 30/05/2013 09:53

Well, good heavens! He's just gone off for a nap, on his own, in the travel cot in a hotel room. I actually can't believe it...

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Nicolaeus · 30/05/2013 13:31

Wow!

Sometimes they do adapt to change really easily. I know I was really worried about nightweaning as DS seemed to really need to BF...so I steeled myself up for a few awful nights and he accepted it form the first night without a fight! Yes he woke and cried but I could settle him with just water and a hug!

I swear they do it on purpose sometimes Grin

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