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5 month old co-(not!)sleeping - move to cot even if have to cc?

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WearyWalker · 12/03/2013 10:25

Sorry, have posted couple of times about 5 1/2 mo dd's increasingly dire sleeping, but finally hit wall. Co-sleeping and ebf used to work really well (eg. dd doing 3/4 hour stretches between feeds), but now hopeless. She just arches her back and won't feed lying down any more. Only way to settle her is either back in the sling, walking round, or sitting up and feeding her/cuddling her. Last night I was sitting up all night. I mean ALL night - have not slept! I have two other dcs, so can't catch up during day (also she only naps in sling).

Friends/family all think I should wean her asap (haven't started yet), give her bottles and get her into cot, even if this means having to cc. Have appointment with HV next week, but she has already been quite disapproving about co-sleeping, so I don't expect her to be very sympathetic.

Am so tired, can't think straight. Dread thought of cc, but feel like giving up bf-ing just so can share night-time trauma with dh. Dd is very sweet and happy by day, don't think she is teething, could it be some other developmental thing going on? Am totally at wit's end, poor dh doesn't know how to help and other dcs really suffering from exhausted mother.

Do I tough it out (have been reading other thread about muddling through, which is what I did before), or take action?? Thank you in advance for any ideas.

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WearyWalker · 12/03/2013 10:27

PS should add that have tried non-cc gentler methods of settling her in cot during day/bedtime, but without any success so far.

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crazycrush · 12/03/2013 16:04

That sounds hard. Just wanted to say that you needn't stop breast feeding... IMO that isn't the problem.. The problem might be that your little one got used to the wrong sleep associations... I.e. feeding or rocking to sleep.

I think weaning off bf would be more 'traumatic' to the baby than some form of sleep training... I.e. teaching to fall asleep by himself.

crazycrush · 12/03/2013 16:06

Check the thread what's your night time MO if your keen. we are discussing these problems there.

smearedinfood · 12/03/2013 20:55

My DS used to feed a lot when a tooth was coming for comfort. He can probably smell you in his sleep. Can you transfer him to a side cot when he's asleep...

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