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Why oh why does my baby has to take his developmental milestones so bloody seriously?

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Indith · 15/01/2013 19:24

He slept very nicely until 4 months old thank you. In bed awake. Go to sleep. Sleep 4 hours. Feed. Back to bed 3 hours and so on. Lovely. He is 10 months now.

Every single thing, waving, clapping, crawling has led to complete mayhem. Add in every cold, sick bug and tooth since 4 months and we have not had a single week without some kind of upset. I have not slept more than 2 hours at a stretch since he was 4 months. Usually it is less than 1 hour. Actually I can't remember when the last 2 hour stretch was it has been that long.

He started pulling himself up today which explains the mental lack of sleep the past few night.

Ds1 didn't see the need for this Grin

Neither did dd I don't think. She just woke every hour for a feed consistantly until she was about 2. Then she woke for a back rub every hour Grin.

I actually now look back at dd's sleep with fondness because at least she went back to bed between wakings and could always be sent back to sleep by breast. Ds2 doesn't really do settling between his wake ups even with a nipple in his mouth. Then you get the bits where he screams at me for putting a nipple in his mouth, which oddly is my best chance for sleep because then dh walks him up and down the stairs for half an hour to resettle him Hmm.

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lljkk · 16/01/2013 16:18

He's clapping already?! Shock
I can vividly remember DC4 learning to clap at 7 months, in a hotel room... in the middle of the night as it was, too. I was more excited than he was, though. :)

Indith · 16/01/2013 16:21

He is 10 months, he only started relatively recently!

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5madthings · 16/01/2013 16:23

Mine were like this, crap sleep with each developmental leap and they would also be grumpy and irritable for a bit before each new thing was learn.

FairyJen · 16/01/2013 16:28

Yes I know what you mean < eyes ds > he has decided that 2-4 in the morning is the best time to have loud conversations with himself which he finds hilarious and I do not quite frankly!

Apparently it gets better.

When that's what I wanna know!

lljkk · 16/01/2013 16:40

Sorry, I was sure I read that he was only 4 months now. (phew, thought that was more evidence of what turnip-brained creatures I've bred, as opposed to evidence of their turnip-brained mother...).

Indith · 16/01/2013 16:42

Ah yes night time conversations. Brilliant fun.

I can cope with crap sleep during developmental stuff but he could at least have the decency to sleep well in between them. Has he not read the books?

It does get better. It does. The big ones sleep when not having nightmares, growing pains, losing teddies or bedcovers or when they can't sleep due to being overtired or wake stupidly early because they are excited about birthdays or it being choir at school day or some other spurious reason. Even dd staretd sleeping through after around 3 and a half or so.

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Indith · 16/01/2013 16:44

I really need to start keeping the coffee table free from crap rather than hiding the crap the baby shouldn't touch on it now he can pull up......

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