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Nearly two year old who was a good sleeper, now waking and scared

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Janey449 · 04/01/2013 21:47

Hi there, my lovely two year old boy has always been an excellent sleeper, would sleep 7pm til 6.30am from 7 weeks, and continued until very recently (last two/three weeks) he would always go to bed alone and chatter in his cot then go to sleep. He now screams if I leave the room at bedtime (and naptime) and asks me to sit in a chair in his room, if I don't he is hysterical until I return. He is also waking in the night, which he has never done, and again asks me to sit in his room in a chair, it only takes a few minutes then he is fast asleep again, but only if I sit with him. I dont have to get him out of the cot or do anything, just sit there in silence in the dark, the problem is sometimes this is 5-6 times a night, I am exhausted! Also if my OH goes in to him night or day he goes hysterical again, and asks for his mummy and cries until I go in.

Has anyone else experienced this and any advice gratefully received (please!)

Thank you xx
ps: have a 5 year old daughter at school so its tricky to let him cry too much in the night.

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BananaPie · 04/01/2013 22:21

Dd is about the same age and behaves quite similarly ( only she's never slept brilliantly). I'm not having much luck getting her to improve... I'd hope that it's a phase and they'll grow out of it soon. In the mean time, it sounds like you're lucky that he settles relatively quickly when you sit with him!

Janey449 · 04/01/2013 22:29

yes lets hope it is a phase, he is getting his last two teeth (top molars), so could be this? Just worried I am getting into terrible habits, my DD was an awful sleeper and has only recently been able to go to sleep by herself! I know I am lucky as if I sit with him he will go to sleep relatively quickly, just worry what will happen if I am not there, and how long it will continue! Good luck BananaPie, hope your little one improves soon.

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Janey449 · 05/01/2013 10:40

does anyone have any advice on this? Not sure if I should do the tough love thing (although not sure my nerves can take the crying) or should I just sit with him and hope its a phase that passes? Thanks xx

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