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Anyone out there had any success with ending the early morning wakings!?

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SazzleMc · 16/09/2012 09:22

HI everyone.

Just wondered if anyone has managed to put a stop to their LO's early morning wakings?

Please tell me your success stories.

In the midst of trying my best to help our LO stop her early morning wakings.

Thanks

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PavlovtheCat · 16/09/2012 09:30

how old is she? DS did this, seemed like forever, up to very recently. I wish I could give you a diffinitive reason for it changing, but, I would say it was time. I tried everything - Wake to Sleep, Shh-pat, pickup/put down. I even tried controlled crying. Eventually we brought him in with us at 4-5am and he learnt to go back to sleep. Now, he often sleeps through that, and sometimes he still comes up to us. He is 2.10 so now he can bring himself to us, rather than us having to get up to see to him, so although I wake up, it is not as traumatic as getting up to settle a crying boy. He tends to sleep 8pm-7am now, sometimes coming to us, and back to sleep, sometimes sleeping through.

I think/it seems that he started sleeping through properly once all his teeth where through. I am not sure/dont think that is the only reason he did not sleep through but it was a combination of a lot of things. And once he was ready, he still had tooth pain.

This time last year though, I was despairing as he used to wake at 4-5am for the morning, sometimes waking once at night too (18months ago, well, lets say, it was the toughest time for me as a parent, ever as he just refused to sleep for long).

So, while I cannot give you a magic cure, I can say that for us at least, it did end, although maybe not as quickly as you want to hear!

Rubirosa · 16/09/2012 09:35

Depends on your child's age and why they are waking early I think. When DS was waking at 5am he was then having a 2 hour morning nap at about 9am. Once we went down to one nap, after lunch (about 13 months) he started waking later.

Ultimately though I had to accept that he doesn't sleep 12 hours a night - he sleeps about 10-10.5 - so if I put him to bed at 7am he's going to be ready to start the day at 5.30am latest. He's 25 months and goes to bed about 9pm, wakes about 7am now with a 2.5 hour nap after lunch.

SazzleMc · 16/09/2012 09:51

Thanks Ladies, my LO is only 5 months old. She isn't hungry/cold/hot etc. She is teething though.

I am pretty sure she is overtired. She wakes at 4/5 am (the last few days even earlier as we are trying to alter her 1st nap of the day).

We think her 1st nap of the day is the problem. We get her up at about 6/6.30. Ist feed at 7am. She wants to nap just before 8am, think she is using this nap as an extended bet time. Argghh.

In bed at night by 7.30. Dream feed at 10.30.

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SarryB · 16/09/2012 12:35

Are you feeding her at 4/5am? It might be habitual waking. I've managed to stop my 5 month old waking by refusing to feed until least 6.30am. (I offer cool water if he's really grumbling) That way he ends up eating way more in the day. But I also think he was doing it because he was thrashing around loads in his sleep, kicking the covers off. (which has co-incided with learning to roll over)

Rubirosa · 16/09/2012 13:24

Are you breastfeeding? At that sort of age I would bring ds into bed with me at 5am for an extended feed/doze until I was ready to get up at 7am, and that worked really well until her was about a year old.

SazzleMc · 16/09/2012 13:55

No not BF.

Not feeding her, we tried that, she would take it but wasn't fussed. Her 1st feed at 7am she doesnt ever take much at all. Approx 90ml.

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