So, after months of awful sleeping (DS is 11 months) we've finally identified the most recurrent problem - he sleep-rolls/crawls/sits up.
In his cot this is a problem because he hits the sides (even with bumpers) and wakes up. He freaks out (especially if sitting up) and needs comforting (often a BF) but it takes ages to get him back to sleep and I am seriously sleep-deprived and not coping.
When we co-sleep he wakes up less as he can roll about on our double mattress (DH sleeps elsewhere whilst I co-sleep) and more often than not can go back to sleep (or stay asleep). However he cries whilst rolling/sitting etc. and that wakes me up so I'm still having bad nights. And on occasion I do have to help him get back to sleep.
The only good thing about co-sleeping is it's proved to me he doesn't need to feed at night, or at most, once a night if it's hot (it's been over 30° here for the past few weeks)
So, how can I get him to stop sleep-moving? I sleepwalk/talk and I usually do it when my mind is on overload or I'm worried about something.
Thing is, DS' mind seems to be permanently on overload with all his progress (he started walking 2 weeks ago and is starting to say identifiable words) but as he's a baby and always learning new things I don't see how we can do anything to stop that.
We try to keep his evenings as calm as possible but have noticed no difference between the very calm evenings and the occasional over-excited evenings. His sleep is bad no matter what!
Any ideas how to reduce the agitated sleep?