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Light at the end of the Sleep tunnel...

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LoobyLou33 · 05/08/2012 22:21

I've been meaning to post this for a little while. It's to encourage mums with young babies who feel desperate and obsessed about sleep!

This time last year, DS1 was 3.5 months old and I had barely slept for 3.5 months!

Not only was he up a LOT at night, but he wouldn't sleep during the daytime unless it was ON ME (or DH), or occasionally in the car seat or buggy. There was just no putting him down, even after falling asleep feeding, rocking etc. Hit the mattress, wide awake, nap ruined for the next 3 hours. So all my plans to catch up on zzz'a during the day were scuppered, and I was like an absolute zombie.

People have said that by not insisting on putting DS down, despite his screams, that we'd regret it...rod for your back etc...I used to worry daily about how to sort out his sleep and what would happen long-term. But gradually, he became happy to sleep in his cot during the daytime, (I can't even remember when, but not til sometime around 10-12 months) and now at 15 months I just change his nappy, draw the curtains, put him in his cot with his bunny and close the door. AND HE FALLS ASLEEP ALL BY HIMSELF!!!! Grin Same deal at night time.

Walking...eating...activity...talking incessantly...all seems to have worn him out sufficiently that he just conks out now, whereas he clearly couldn't settle as a wee nipper and was pretty grumpy most of the time.

I must add that we did a small bit of letting him cry at around 7 months, once he was weaned and not wanting a BF, just at night time and not for long. That's when he started sleeping through.

I hope this helps other mums with limpet babies not to panic that they'll necessarily always want to be glued to a boob/your shoulder in order to nap...I realise some babies do seem to be higher need for a long time, but in our case I thought that's how it would be but it gradually changed and now I feel fairly normal Wink

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beginnersluck · 06/08/2012 09:37

LoobyLou, I LOVE you for posting this!

Thanks
Raspberrysorbet · 06/08/2012 11:18

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HearMyRoar · 06/08/2012 20:55

Oh god, you mean I have another 6 months at least of this?! Please tell me that she won't be waking every 2 hours for all of that time as well....

LoobyLou33 · 06/08/2012 22:09

Oh hearmyroar a big hug for you! How old is she now? Every 2 hours is hell. I remember that phase...luckily it was a phase!

The thing is, it all seems to happen at different times for everyone. In our case, it took til he was about 7.5 months to sleep through the night, before which he was waking 2,3, or 4 times a night. It was mostly for cuddles not food (we tested by sending DH in first, if DS snuggled down and stopped crying we knew he wasn't afte milk!) Other people I know had babies sleeping through from about 10 weeks. Another friend is still waking up to breastfeed her daughter at 16 months. I think food has a lot to do with it, and how well they feed during the day. Solids definitely helped us and we waited til 6 months to start weaning.

beginnersluck and raspberrysorbet hoping sleep gets better for you guys soon too Smile ... good luck!

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Roxymm · 06/08/2012 22:17

I'm so happy miracles can happen. And my ds1 will or might sleep through the night in another 2-3mnths.

Than i can work on ds2, another 7-8mnths hopefully when he'll be old enough to sleep without breastfeed at night. Then like you i can catch up on 2.5yrs of sleep

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