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Nights getting worse.....

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tory79 · 14/04/2012 09:42

Ds (almost 7 months) has never been going to win any awards for his sleeping - he has typically woken every 2-3 hours since he was born. However, he'd just stir and wake up, have a quick feed and then go back to sleep.

For about the last 2 weeks he has been waking up every 1-2 hours and crying, and he will feed and go back to sleep but then usually starts crying again the minute I put him back in his cot. Most nights I've ended up with him asleep on my chest from about 3/4 - he goes straight to sleep quite happily like this, obviously it's not so great for me!

I'm basically exhausted after 7 months of no more than 2 hrs consecutive sleep and am finding it very hard to deal with even less gap between his wake ups. We co slept for the first 3 months, and I didn't get any more sleep then as I found it really uncomfortable and I have never mastered feeding lying down so I still had to sit up to do that anyway. After co sleeping he went in to a bedside cot, and he is still right next to me although the side is up because he rolls so much now.

DH is no help whatsoever, he sleeps in the spare room and thinks I should just leave him to cry, and no matter how many times I tell him that will not bd happening in a million years he still keeps suggesting it. He doesn't deal with any of the night wakings himself.

Any ideas/cup of tea and sympathy gratefully received.

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tory79 · 14/04/2012 10:14

I should add - teething - check! Although has nothing to show for it and it doesn't seem to be upsetting him too much in the day.

Also randomly in the middle of this frequent waking hell he slept for a 5 hour stretch 8-1 for only the 3rd time since he was born! This was lying on his tummy. I Of course didn't benefit from this whatsoever as I was lying there just waiting for him to wake up Smile

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tory79 · 15/04/2012 11:55

Bump - anyone any thoughts? Last night he went to sleep at 745, woke up at 815, 11, 12 (at which point I had him on my chest to sleep - put him back in his cot at 1, he woke up so I fed him again and he went back to sleep) 230 at which point I had him back lying on me again, then 430 then awake for the day at 630.

I'm sure I need to persist with getting him back in his cot but this is quite out of character for him - he normally settles back in his cot quite easily after being fed. And I'm so tired that it's just easier to do the thing I know will get him back to sleep and stay asleep for a little longer!

I should also add that he is not fed to sleep at the start of the night, he does settle himself although it can take a while, but he seems to find it very hard to settle himself during the night.

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Mombojombo · 15/04/2012 16:34

tory there's a very similar thread going at the mo called something like Awful Nights with 6mo (sorry, can't link from stupid phone), lots of people in the same or similar situation, including me. Maybe you could get some ideas and support there if folks aren't responding directly. Suffice it to say I feel your pain!

usingapseudonym · 15/04/2012 17:30

I think this could be the 3rd thread like this - I'm in a similar position and posting on them all to hopefully await advice and magical solutions...!!

tory79 · 15/04/2012 20:40

oh dear - its good to know we are not alone I guess!!!

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Sargesaweyes · 16/04/2012 22:05

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