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Need 10m DS to give up the BFs through the night, but don't want to give up co-sleeping. Help!!

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boognish · 08/01/2012 02:19

Just read www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2083249/Babies-problems-sleeping-likely-toddlers-restless-nights.html about - gulp! - it being unlikely that your baby will become a good sleeper in later years if they get onto a bad start. Mine certainly did, as he had breastfeeding jaundice and I was told by the hospital to feed him at 3hr intervals minimum until the jaundice went. Well, it didn't till my milk supply was properly established, by which time he was 7 weeks old. (I now think that was unnecessary as he had no weight/alertness issues, but that's another story). I'd had to get him up by changing his nappy through the night every 2.5 or so hours up to then (as he needed to be properly awake to latch) and think he got into a habit of sleeping badly. He once slept for a 7-hour stretch when he was 7ms, but otherwise he has consistently woken through the night, sometimes hourly but more generally every 2-3 hours, and only a feed will settle him.

Another article I read recently suggests I've been right to cosleep because babies' heart rates are steadier and their sleep cycles better when they sleep close to their mothers, so I don't see enough value in moving him to a different room so he can be away from the smell of the milk, especially as my instinct is to be with him. But I would love him to give up the night feeds, as I desperately need to start ovulating again and it was a small miracle that I conceived him at my age. Does anyone have any experience in any aslepct of this?

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Parietal · 08/01/2012 08:49

Don't pay too much attention to daily mail.

Wear a heavy t shirt at night to make it harder for baby to feed when you are half asleep. And maybe give a dummy?

Rosemallow · 08/01/2012 09:23

What Parietal said. DM will probably publish another article to the contrary when it suits them (anything to make mums feel bad!)
DD was a terrible sleeper, much preferred milk to food and wouldnt take a dummy! Things 'clicked' at about 20 months old and she now sleeps from 7.30pm - 8.00am or often 9.30am!
She only wakes if she's ill now and LOVES going to bed! (I still co sleep with her and will move her into her own bed when she's ready)
DS (10 months) is a total milk monster and would also feed all night if he could. I've given him a dummy and he is much better. Still has days when he wants to be fed at night, when teething etc.
If you want to keep co sleeping, have you tried a bedside cot? I'm able to hold DS's hand or cuddle him when he wakes without feeding him and he also wakes less. (he still ends up in bed with me but usually sleeps through in his cot for at least 6 hours)
Good luck with trying for another! :)

RaisingMrC · 08/01/2012 13:32

I haven't tried it myself but have seen it mentioned here on MN, it is a nightweaning method for people who want to continue co-sleeping:

here

Also this blog has a description of their nightweaning while co-sleeping journey.

Good luck!

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