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Advice for toddler bedtime

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lucamom · 23/06/2011 23:40

I have 2 boys, aged 4 and 2 (will be 3 in August) who have shared a room since Xmas. Initially they adapted well to sharing and went to sleep with no problems.

Lately, however, my youngest son has ben very disruptive at bedtime; constantly getting out of bed and generally playing up.

I'd welcome any thoughts or advice - the key points for info are:

  • He's always been a relatively good sleeper
  • I'm a SAHM so he sees me all day, and Daddy is usually home in time for bath/story/bed duties
  • He's no worse/better with either myself or DH
  • We've always had a consistent bedtime routine as per advice - bath, story bed, so he knows the triggers and signs for bedtime
  • We're not sure exactly, but it seems to have started from potty training. He's dry in the day but wears pull ups at night (these are usually dry in the morning)
  • He seems to be amused the more cross we get, and finds 'rapid return' hilarious, even after 40-50 times of doing it.
  • There's a blackout blind at the window as well as curtains, although during the summer months there is some light in the room
  • In every other way he's a good kid - his health is great, he eats well, and by the time he goes to bed at 7pm he's tired enough that he should sleep.

It's a very stressful situation we want to get on top of asap, not least because his brother is starting school in September and he's going to nursery, and we've baby number 3 due in October!

Thanks in advance for your advice

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MovingAndScared · 24/06/2011 09:41

does he seem tired? it could be a bit of a later bedtime might help?
are they going to be at the same time - you could try keeping DS1 up - or giving them bath together and then older one goes down stairs for a bit so you can settle DS2 first
try not to react at all - although its maddening -getting cross is just as much attention as anything
and it might not be for everyone but either have DS1 downstair or settling him in your room maybe -assume he is not sleeping well either and put a stair gate on their bed room and just ignore him

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