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Help - not sure what's changed. Why won't she settle?

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BonyM · 15/11/2005 21:09

DD2 is almost 8 months and has always been a reasonably good sleeper (bar the odd bad patch).

One thing that has been consistent though is that at night she will always go to sleep easily when I first put her down, regardless of whether she then wakes later during the night.

Three times in the last four nights we have had real problems with her going to bed - she will get hysterical and even if dh or I picks her up and cuddles her it takes ages for her to stop crying. She will eventually calm, we'll put her back into bed and then she starts again.

Saturday and Sunday night she did this (and was also off her food a bit at the weekend), but last night she was fine and went straight to sleep.

Tonight though, I put her to bed at the usual time, after doing the usual bedtime routine (bath, breastfeed, into bed with dreamshow light on), and as soon as the music stopped she started crying. After much to-ing and fro-ing, giving teething powder, dentinox and finally Calpol (as have been wondering if she's in pain from teething), she finally went to sleep about 8pm. Have just had to go up again now as she started crying again, but this time settled with a bit of "shushing" and head stroking.

I really don't know what is wrong - she doesn't appear ill (temp. normal, no cold); thought it might be teeth but she was fine yesterday; she goes down fine for her daytime sleeps and is happy and contented all day.

Any ideas please? Felt so stressed tonight as the only thing that stopped her crying was taking her into another room (dh phoned as he's away tonight, and I took her with me to answer the call and she sat with me while I spoke to him, calm as anything).

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BonyM · 15/11/2005 21:10

Oh - should add that although off food at weekend, appetite has been normal today and yesterday.

Sorry post is so long!

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mckenzie · 15/11/2005 21:29

I really feel for you BonyM but unfortunately I don't have any advice to offer.
Have you had much noise from fireworks this last week? I only ask as 4 year old DS, not troubled by them at all in the lead up to Nov 5th and over the weekend itself, has suddenly been making me close his bedroom window and any other bedroom windows and the last 2 nights has gone to bed with his fingers in his ears (daft sod .
Probably not related at all but just a thought.

compo · 15/11/2005 21:30

It really sounds like teething to me. Either that or it's just a phase (keep saying that to yourself!!)

BonyM · 15/11/2005 21:36

Did have lots of fireworks and these did disturb her but it was only really 4th/5th Nov.

I thought it might be teething but then she was fine yesterday - could it work like that? (DD1 is 7 so I can't remember!)

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mckenzie · 15/11/2005 21:44

I forget all sorts of things like that and DS is only 4.
Guess you've got to be careful tomorrow night though that you don't anticipate her being unsettled as then she might sense it and make it worse. Perhaps tomorrow night you could do the teething powders etc before you actually take her up to bed.

monstersmummy · 15/11/2005 21:46

u may find me wierd for typing this but its full moon tomo and both mine r buggers the week b4 full moon(2.5 and7 months)

hornbag · 15/11/2005 21:59

Know what you mean about the full moon MM

BonyM -as someone else said its probably just a brief phase. My DS did this with his daytime naps at about the same age -didn't seem to be any reason why. In the end we did some CC which sorted it in 2 (very stressful!) days.

Or of course, the dreaded teething

BonyM · 15/11/2005 22:05

Well - if it is the full moon hopefully I'll see some improvement soon!

Don't really want to go down the cc route and the thing is that she can settle herself and usually does so don't know if cc will really do any good.

I keep expecting a tooth to appear any day - really hope it does then at least we will have an explanation and can hopefully get back to normal.

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mckenzie · 16/11/2005 13:44

how was your DD last night BonyM?

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