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Can there be an early 4-month sleep regression?

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PatronSaintOfDucks · 10/05/2011 10:14

Hi everyone. My DS's daytime naps are going out of the window. He is 15 weeks tomorrow. He's always been a rubbish napper, but, through much effort, since about 10-11 weeks I was guaranteed to be able to put him down for three 45-min naps a day. It did require an elaborate setting (cot, swaddling, darkened room, rather loud radio white noise, often humming from me, but he did self-settle about 1/2 of the time), but it worked. One nap of the three was in the sling outside. Now, however, in the past week he's become very difficult to put to nap - 20-30 min for a 45-min nap! Lots of whingeing and often crying. And today I was not able to put him down for his morning nap for this first time in weeks. And this was our easiest nap! Could this be an early 4-month sleep regression?

Some potentially important factors:

  • He learned to turn over onto his tummy about a week ago. He also started actively grabbing at toys and sticking them into his mouth.
  • I am trying to wean him off swaddling as I am afraid that he will flip on his tummy and get stuck with his face down. He can turn on his side when swaddled. About 10 days ago I started putting him in a sleeping bag for morning nap. He can nap in it, but it does take a bit more effort.
  • He stopped displaying clear sleepy signs. Before he would yawn almost exactly 1.5 hrs after waking. Now he does not yawn unless already in cot. He just gets grumpy, but I am not sure if he is sleepy or bored. I tried putting him to nap later than 1.5 hrs, but this does not make any difference.
  • While we have a pretty constant wake up time and regular bedtime, we do not have a daytime schedule. I just always put him to nap when he appeared sleepy and fed him when he appeared hungry. The length of his naps is irregular - can sometimes be 1.5 hrs, but usually 45 min and only 20 min in the car. He feeds every 2-3 hrs. Should I try for a schedule?

Will be grateful for any transfer of knowledge!

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sweetuphoria · 10/05/2011 14:26

Sounds like my DD who has just started putting stuff in the mouth all the time, trying to roll over etc. And this has affected her daytime naps. She is 17wks. Apparently their brains are so busy that it affects their sleep for a short period of time.

If it works for you how its going then I wouldn't bother trying to get into a routine. I was like you tor ages and was spending a long time settling DD down for naps and only getting 45mins from her, the only thing that has worked in getting her to have longer naps in giving in and letting her have a dummy. I do the same as you with putting her down for naps and just wait for a yawn then get her to bed (around every 1.5hrs) Although her signs seem harder to read recently too - maybe just a natural thing with getting older.

Also I bet your DD misses the comfort of a swaddle. I also have just pretty much weaned DD from swaddling but I find that sometimes when she's particularly resistant to napping if I swaddle her she settles straight away.

PatronSaintOfDucks · 10/05/2011 21:31

Thanks! I am glad I am not the only one (not like I feel glad that someone else is suffering though). It's nice to know that this may be normal and I am not a terrible mother.

I am sure DS's little brain is working overtime now. It's tough being a baby. And I am sure he does miss the swaddle. I'll try being as gentle about it as possible. Just sticking to one nap sans swaddle now.

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TheRtHonCountessOfBapula · 11/05/2011 06:36

Hello Ducks. Was DS born late? Sleep regressions and developmental leaps are linked to gestational age (ie due date) rather than birth age. My DS was 2 weeks late and hit the 4 month regression at 15 weeks and we're still waiting for him to come out of it now.

With DS it mainly manifested itself in night wakings - one night he suddenly woke every hour Hmm

PatronSaintOfDucks · 11/05/2011 06:51

Hi Count. How are you doing? I followed you on the other threads, and my heart totally bleeds for you. Your situation is really difficult. I hope there is at least some improvement now in your DS's sleep. But if lack of sleep is caused by increased brain activity, then you have no less than a future Einstein on your hands.

My DS was one of these 2% of children who are born exactly on their due date. I am strongly suspecting that the full force of the regression is still to hit us. The present shenannigans are probably just precursory. DS has always been a decent night sleeper (although no sign of sleeping through by any means, we generally have two hearty meals a night), but I expect this will go. It's a pity we can't put on sleep like we put on weight for the hard days ahead.

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TheRtHonCountessOfBapula · 11/05/2011 09:16

Hi Ducks. His sleep is appalling again - up every hour or two. I'm knackered! He better be a bloody genius ... Hmm

Hope your DS's sleep improves. It's really tough. I just keep telling myself that things have to get better at some point!

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