DS is 9 months, im living with familly at the moment so sharing with him still. he starts off in his own cot every night, but always ends up in my bed, sometimes at 10pm, sometimes not til 5am, he only wakes the once usually but demands to come into my bed. im hoping to move out soon so DS can have his own room, but im wondering when to encourage him to stay in his own cot? part of me thinks whats the point now, but maybe it would be easier going into his own room if he is used to not coming into my bed. im not overly annoyed that he comes into my bed but he does take up a lot of room and i know i have to stop him eventually!! any suggestions on when to start it?