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It CAN get better - without any need for sleep training!

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BananaMuffin · 21/04/2011 13:45

I just wanted to post a positive story to give some hope to other sleep-deprived mothers. Up until 3 weeks ago, I was wondering when my 22 wo would ever sleep through. He was waking 2-3 times every evening (between 7 and 10) and then another 2 times in the night, wanting to be fed every time. On the worst nights, he'd wake every 2 hours. I was getting very disillusioned and starting to believe that I'd have to try CC/ CIO at some point, which I desperately didn't want to do. My biggest hope was that it would simply sort itself out. Well... I don't want to jinx myself, but somehow it has!! For the past couple of weeks he's been going to bed at 7, waking just once (between 10 and 11) for another feed, and then sleeping through until 7am. And the daytime naps are getting better and better too - he now has 30 mins in the morning, 1.5 hours at lunchtime and another 30 mins in the afternoon. I can honestly say that this has fallen into place with no particular changes on our part, other than persevering with the 6.30pm bed and bath time routine. Oh, and i don't want to pretend that the naps are easy - he still needs to be pushed to sleep in his pushchair every day, but he does fall asleep quite quickly now. I was terrified that I was feeding him too much at night and not enough in the day, but he's decided to turn it around himself.

I don't want this post to sound boastful, because believe me i have suffered with some terrible sleepless nights, but I really wanted to read something like this a few weeks ago... so I thought it would be useful to post a positive story on here for others like me!!

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sotough · 21/04/2011 19:24

thank you, good to hear this encouraging story. my 15 week old is waking any time from 4.30am wanting to start the day and i've been mulling over what, if anything, i can do about it. i go back to work soon and am quite worried about how i'll cope with the sleep deprivation. her early waking happens despite her having a very regular routine which involves limited nap times so it's not because she's sleeping too much during the day. i have been finding it very very tough. until today i found that if i fed her at 4.30am she would at least go back to sleep until 7am, which was fine - but today she stopped doing that and just wanted to get up at 6am even though she wasn't hungry. it's been a shock as my 3.5yr old was an amazing sleeper and genuinely slept through the night from 11 weeks old - 7pm-7am, with a dream feed. he almost never woke up in the middle of the night. i expected to be able to 'achieve' the same with his sister and it hasn't happened, so i've had to adapt to that and learned the hard way that babies are not machines, and each is different.

isthismadness · 21/04/2011 19:26

Be careful though!
My ds slept through finally from 22 weeks. Then he started waking up twice a night again until he was 2 years and 2 months. It can all change again....

IwishIwasmoreorganised · 21/04/2011 19:30

Great news - bet you feel like a new woman!

My 2 have both been down to 1 nap a day by about 14 months - a big one after an earlyish lunch. You might find that if his morning nap is tricky to get him to settle for that a longer, later nap might be the solution.

nethunsreject · 21/04/2011 19:32

Thank you!

Ds2 is a bad sleeper. It is good to hear that it might end Wink

TrinityRhino · 21/04/2011 19:33

lol sounds great but could just be a phase

I never used sleep training, I dont agree with it

gecko slept through when she was 3 and a half years

Pidgin · 21/04/2011 20:27

It's good to hear this can happen! Like you I am worried mainly because I can't do my job with such broken sleep - I'd be happy to wait it out otherwise. Hope it lasts for you and thanks for sharing a positive story.

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