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Nearly 12 month old suddenly won't sleep!

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Supermoo · 11/04/2011 15:25

I hope someone here can help me figure out what's going on!

DD2 is nearly one, she's been a pretty good sleeper for months. She's still breastfed and occasionally woke once in the night for a quick feed. I always put her in her cot awake though, so no sucking dependency for sleeping. She goes to bed ( after tea, bath, story, feed) at 7pm and used to sleep from then till around 5.30-6am.

Great, I thought, got it nailed...

Until weds last week when she screamed at me for TWO HOURS before I breastfed her to sleep in desperation. This h refitted every night since, and every nap time. She has naps in her pushchair if we're out. Last night it was 10pm before she went to sleep.

I've tried:
Pick up put down
Warm bottle of milk/ snack before bed
Calpol (she just got her first teeth and is a bit unsettled at times with them)
Leaving her for increasing amounts of time (completely against my instincts, but I know some swear by it)
She has a comfort blanket
Tried lights off and with dimmed light
Tried music and light show

Nothing helps!

Please tell me it's a phase! Even better, would love some ideas how to sort it out!

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Magicmayhem · 11/04/2011 15:29

is there any chance you can you cut out her daytime naps in her pushchair?

Supermoo · 11/04/2011 15:35

Yes, she doesn't nap as such in there, more falls asleep when we're out. She is still very tired at 7pm, which make it harder to settle her still!

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He1enMc · 12/04/2011 20:43

Nothing very constructive to contribute I'm afraid but I'm sure it is just a phase. I've followed the Wonder Weeks theory since DS was 3 months (now 10 months) and his sleep has always been much easier during sunny spells and more difficult during cloudy spells. Their website has a chart that shows when they are. The idea is that there are set, predictable weeks when babies brains start firing off in new patterns that let them learn a new skill such as 'categories' or 'sequences' and this new ability means the world suddenly looks different and scary and makes babies cry, and be cranky and clingy (the 3 C's). DS has followed the pattern almost to the day (calculated from due date rather than birth date) and I always find his difficult times SO much easier to cope with when I feel I know what is going on in his little head, and that a sunny spell with more sleep is just around the corner!

nobodyimportant · 12/04/2011 20:50

What naps does she have? It was at this sort of age that my DD dropped from 2 naps to 1 per day and we had an awful time with her at bedtime for a few weeks until one night I put her to bed at 6.30 instead of 7pm and she went down like a dream and had a really good nights sleep. Worth a try.

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