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To CC or not?!

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MrsGravy · 24/02/2011 14:03

I am completely at the end of my rope with my 8 month old. She was a reasonably good sleeper up until the age of 4 months or so but has been on a downward spiral since then. She'd got to the point where she was waking every couple of hours in the night and I was breastfeeding her to sleep. I could tell that she wasn't really hungry so I decided to feed her when I went to bed at 11ish and then not feed her until the morning. This went ok at first, took a while to get her off by rocking her but she wasn't upset at all. But, 2 weeks later, and her sleep is hellish. It takes between and hour/2 hours to get her back to sleep - we rock her and she goes off, put her in her cot and she wakes. This is repeated endlessly.

Last night I decided to just feed her and give up on the rocking. She woke every 1.5/2 hours through the night. She wouldn't even nap yesterday - just one 30 minute cat nap.

I can't take much more to be honest. I have a 4 and 6 year old as well and I'm ratty and horrible with them. DH is great at sharing night duty but is away at times for work and even when he does help out I remain awake anyway. I'm thinking of doing CC now. I'm convinced she's not teething, she's not upset when she wakes, she's just wakeful and wants to be held. I had hoped we wouldn't have to do it but I can't think what else to do with her. Anyone have any alternative suggestions? It could well be a developmental thing as she's desperately trying to crawl but I honestly can't take much more.

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Chil1234 · 24/02/2011 14:49

If she needs to suckle in order to settle, would a dummy help?

MrsGravy · 24/02/2011 18:48

Thanks for your reply but she already has a dummy. I am fairly resolved to give CC a bash on Friday night...

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curlyLJ · 24/02/2011 19:04

I did the same when DD was 10m and it worked a treat. We were in a similar situation and it was getting us all down...

She sleeps roughly 7.30 - 6.30/7 now and she is much happier - she naps better most of the time too...

She moans/grizzles for anything from 20 seconds to 5 mins at bedtime, but it is her way of getting herself off to sleep I think.

Sometimes I hear her in the night, she cries for a couple of mins and then settles herself. It's so nice to know that when I get into my bed, I am not getting out again until morning (unless she really needs me, obviously!)

I say go for it - if you can handle the crying.

lazzaroo · 24/02/2011 19:10

I have to say that I also got to the point where we had to try something. Think little one was about 10mmonths and we tried. Didn't leave her for long crying without checking on her so she was constantly reassured. It took 3 nights. First night about 45mins to get to sleep, second night about 30 and third night 10mins with no tears. Best thing ever as we've had very little trouble since then. She's an early riser but most nights sleeps from 7 till 5.30/6ish.

spinaltap · 24/02/2011 19:36

MrsGravy, please let us know how you get on - I'm in a similar situation with my 8mo. He's better when I feed him at night, wakes for a feed at 10pm and 2am, but then wakes at 4.30am to play! And he cries if he doesn't have an audience. I'm so tired!
He eats well in the day so I tried not feeding him at night for a week and it was hellish. Every time he woke he was up for an hour and a half, then when he finally got back to sleep would wake again an hour later.
Good luck with the cc - I'm not sure I can bear it, but if it's worth it I think I may have to try it.

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