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Sod the dr I think she's wrong

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beijingaling · 14/02/2011 06:26

dd is 7 weeks and her sleep is all over the place (understandably I think at this age). She sleeps between approx 12-5am, wakes up asking to be fed, and then settles back to sleep very easily. At her next wake up (around 9) and feed she goes down easily after.

After this I wake her every 3 hours and feed. The problem is she rarely goes down easily in the afternoons and becomes horribly overtired when she's been awake for over 3 or 4 hours and fights sleep with every breath even if I try to let her drop off on the boob. Evenings have become horrible.

Dr has said I should wake her to feed every 4 hours at night and 3 in the day. I already ignore the dr at night and now I'm going to ignore her in the day too and just let dd find her own rhythm. DD is feeding well and gaining weight.

She's been asleep for almost 4 hours in the day and I'm feeling horribly guilty but keep telling myself sleep breeds sleep and it will be better for her (and me) in the long run.

So sod the dr, I think she's wrong!

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Tortoiseonthehalfshell · 14/02/2011 06:30

At seven weeks, and if your supply is good and she's feeding well, there's no need to wake her up at all.

At that age, mine was fussy no matter what, so brace yourself that this might not be a magical solution. But it certainly won't make things worse. I agree with you - sod the doctor.

beijingaling · 14/02/2011 06:42

Supply is good, she's feeding well and weight gain is good (she gained1kg in 3 weeks).

I agree... It can't be worse and I'm hoping she'll get the sleep she needs.

But what do you mean it might not be the magic solution??!

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Tortoiseonthehalfshell · 14/02/2011 06:43

Fret not, there is a magic solution, that works on 100% of babies.

...They get older.

beijingaling · 14/02/2011 06:58
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JiltedJohnsJulie · 14/02/2011 07:00

Beijing I would have loved mine to have slept that much at night at 7 weeks. If they are asleep at night and you are happy with how they are doing let them sleep!

germum · 14/02/2011 22:18

Why on earth would you think a doctor knows the first thing about sleep? They do not study this at medical school. ( just as they don't usually know much aboiut breast feeding)

She is probably speaking from personal experience and you may as well talk to your friends and relatives.

beijingaling · 15/02/2011 06:09

None of my friends have had children and my relatives aren't in the picture.

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trixymalixy · 15/02/2011 10:02

I think babies that little should go for a sleep every 11/2 to 2 hours during the day. Certainly my 2 needed to.

foxy123 · 15/02/2011 10:30

the midwives told me from birth just don't let the baby go for more than 6hrs without a feed, which I think is fair...
I NEVER woke my DD during the night for a feed, I think that is just insanity and creating a rod for your own back!

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