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10 mo sleep regression hell!

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ThePetiteMummy · 13/02/2011 07:49

We've been really lucky up to now, as dd has been a great sleeper, hasn't woken in the night for a feed for many months now. So I guess it's pay back time! The sleep problems started when she was ill with a nasty cold about 3 weeks ago, combined with her top 2 teeth either side of the front ones coming through. She's now over both those things, but her sleep seems to be getting worse & worse! I've been reading the No Cry Sleep solution, as she's never been that easy to settle (always fed to sleep, bf), and based on this, have been trying hard to establish a bedtime routine. Funnily enough this has worked brilliantly, and she goes to sleep no problem. Then the problems start!

She's now waking up so many times in the night, I couldn't even count them. In the earlier part of the evening, this will sometimes be a bit of a grizzle, so I don't rush in, and sometimes she will resettle herself. But by the time we get to the 3rd waking or so, she gets more & more worked up, to the point where we can't get her to stop crying, even if she comes into our bed. Fortunately I only work part time, but on the days I do, I have to be up at 5.45, and on those days I'm exhausted. I don't think she's waking with hunger, as if I try to feed her, she's not interested. She has started to eat more during the day recently (although still not a lot), and is pulling up to standing all the time, so could this must've a developmental thing?

Someone tell me it's just a phase! Any advice much appreciated, this is driving me and dh round the bend!

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ThePetiteMummy · 13/02/2011 07:49

That should say 'just be' not 'must've'.

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GoingToBeSize12 · 13/02/2011 08:51

How funny ThePetiteMummy, I just came onto MN to post about exactly the same issue!

I also have a 10 month old dd who has started waking up in the night crying and it's impossible to settle her for a couple of hours. This has never been the case before. She usually sleeps through or would go back to sleep if we put in her dummy, but nothing works anymore. We've tried bringing her in bed with us but it isn't very successful and I don't sleep at all when she is with us. Last night she was awake from midnight to 5am, sleeping only on and off. She goes crazy if I try and put her back in her own cot.

So sorry no advice, just to say I feel your pain. Hopefully someone will have tips or at least confirm it's just a phase!

ThePetiteMummy · 13/02/2011 11:26

Thanks Goingtobesize12, it's good to know someone out there is going through it too! That's funny you mention 12-5am, as that's about the same time my dd is worst. She sleeps on and off before that, and after that she sometimes sleeps too. For example, yesterday and today she slept in our bed from about 7 til 10. As you say, let's hope this is one of those things that will just pass!

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ThePetiteMummy · 16/02/2011 00:20

Hi Goingtobesize12, hope you've been getting a bit more sleep! Just thought I'd report that we've had a sudden major improvement here, so maybe they do just one day get over it! (dd 10.5 months now). Saturday night was dreadful, but Sunday night she just woke once, at 1am, and last night just at 3am! She was much easier to settle too, none of the inconsolable crying we've had. So I hope things might improve soon for you too, perhaps they just reach a point where they're exhausted! Little monkeys!

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