Hoping someone can give some suggestions or reassurance that I'm not making a rod for my own back!
Ds2 is nearly 9 weeks old. He never goes to sleep by himself - except if he's in his swing. All other times he falls asleep while feeding. Sometimes he continues suckling on me to comfort himself to sleep after a feed.
This is fine for now, in theory, but the problem is that he gets painful trapped wind during the night, then needs comforted back to sleep, even if he's just had a long feed.
The other problem is that he now gets all his naps in the swing because he will settle himself and will sleep for ages.
Why does he sleep longer and better in the swing?
He usually cluster feeds from around 7pm til midnight, then wakes at least twice to be fed, and often a few times due to the sore tummy and loud farting. I'm now struggling with lack of sleep but can't go to bed earlier because of cluster feeding, and hate sleeping my days away.
Anyone help? Note, he gets infacol before each feed then does a few huge burps after each feed.
And he stays downstairs with us till 11pm feeding when we all go to bed