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Gradual withdrawal question

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dycey · 18/01/2011 20:15

Ds is 23 months and always been pretty good at going to sleep at bedtime on his own. However, usual story - got ill away from home over Christmas and wanted me to sit with him. He also has some fears about tigers and crocodiles, so I think anxiety played a part.

I have begun a slow withdrawal process now and no longer sit with him but answer from the next room when he calls me. Generally to say "I'm here" when he shouts "where mummy gone?".

Have a baby due in the summer and while this situation is fine at the mo I could really dowith cutting down the long bedtime ritual!

But how to withdraw any further when it's my voice he needs for reassurance?

Advice needed! THank you!

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thisisyesterday · 18/01/2011 20:17

gradually leave it longer until you reply

so if you normally say "i'm here" as soon as he calls, just leave it a few seconds. maybe make some other noises so he knows you are there.

alternatively you could have a go with using a baby monitor the wrong way round? so he can hear you through it? that might work

dycey · 18/01/2011 21:35

Great ideas thank you. That's why I love mumsnrt. Hadn't thought of those ideas! Think if his lullaby music played longer he might call for me less as well.

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