Well after a good few weeks of very disturbed sleep I think I know what's happening. DS has reflux I think - I know I know it's a catch all for everything but DD had it and he is displaying same symptoms.
Randomly doing choking sounding coughs in his sleep and waking up, won't lie on his back, being sick alot. Also happy to sleep in pram when back slightly raised.
Last night after trying to get him settled for ages I put him on his side and he relaxed and slept for longer than he has in a while.
I have the cot mattress at an angle but this isn't really helping. He is 4month, can I risk side sleeping? Was thinking about a positioner but read somewhere they weren't safe? or should I try a wedge? Any ideas?