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Please vote in our "What do you think about the On Mumsnet This Week column in the Daily Mail?" poll

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JustineMumsnet · 02/09/2009 12:54

Hello all,
So am back in Blighty and have caught up on everything posted and all the ongoing correspondence with the DM that's gone on while I've been away. (Sorry very poor communications on hols so haven't really been in the loop but Carrie and team have filled me in now.)
Thanks all for the input as ever.

There are a few things you've raised that we need to address and clarify. So, as ever, apologies in advance for the long post.

The first I think is MNHQ's attitude towards this column and why we didn't try and put a stop to it earlier, i.e. the moment we found out about it. (Recap for those who may have missed: we didn't know in advance that it was going to happen, the first we knew about it was when we saw the first column being discussed on MN and initially we didn't think we had any legal grounds to contest the DM's use of MN quotes. We subsequently established some time after column 2 that the DM is, in fact, most likely infringing MN copyright).

As I said early on, a weekly column in the DM is not something we'd have sought. We share many Mumsnetters' misgivings about the views and general tone of the paper - particularly it's attitudes towards working women, immigrants etc. And as I've also said we've as yet detected no noticeable increase in visitors on Thursdays when the column is published (or on any other days for that matter). Nor is it a column that fills us with pride because it adequately represents the joy and wonder that is Mumsnet. So why - as some have understandably wondered - are we not banging our fists about stopping the darned thing and have we not fired off a barrage of legal threats? Why instead do we at HQ seem a bit ambivalent about whether the column exists or not?

The main answer is this. Like it or not, the Daily Mail is a very influential beast, probably one of the most politically influential institutions in the UK. So, irrespective of the content of these columns, the very fact that the Daily Mail have decided that Mumsnet is prominent and interesting enough to base a weekly column around increases our clout. Clout when it comes to asking government ministers to consider things like our miscarriage campaign, clout when we try to persuade Gok Wan's PR that he ought to pay us a visit, or when the Tories are thinking about environment policy or what they're going to do to increase breastfeeding rates.

We also have a distinct reluctance to "go legal" with anyone after our experience of GF going legal with us - the legal system and lawyers (particularly opposing lawyers) have a way of eating up all your resources, not to mention your will to live. And call us lily-livered if you like, we'd rather not be at the top the DM's hit list if there's a way of avoiding it.

Plus, from the correspondence Carrie's had with the mail in the last couple of weeks, it's clear that they would are prepared to take steps to minimise the privacy risks.

That said, we accept many of the reservations argued well here and in previous threads about the imperfect nature of the association.

In short, those of you who've accused us of residing on the fence are probably right - we are a bit and tbh it's not very comfortable!
So where next?

We think perhaps it would be best both to help us get off the fence and, if it comes to it, to lay the column to rest, to put the matter to the vote. We recognise that it's not a perfect solution but there have been a number of objections raised about this and we'd like to see exactly what it is that folks are objecting to - MN in the Daily Mail per se. MN in the Daily Mail without MN control over content. MN in the Daily Mail in its current guise/format - for example would it be OK if it were it a funny weekly column written by someone like MorningPaper (they'd never have she's far too rude of course)? Or perhaps you don't object at all (and you have an aversion to posting on this thread ).

Hopefully they'll be a clear conclusion and we promise to abide by it and to do our darnedest to put it into action as quickly as possible.

We're sorry this has dragged on a bit - it is a bit tricky to conduct this type of negotiation in public, particularly when there's a whiff of the legals about - and as we all know (if we didn't already) MN is a very public board, open for all to see and easily searchable etc. At some points we do sometimes have to just hope that you trust that we are not the bad guys who are trying to manipulate, exploit and mislead you all for our own ends (many thanks to those who have said as much). If you think that we are then there's nowt much we can say I suspect to ever sway you otherwise - but you're welcome on MN all the same because it's not really about us, after all.

It also doesn't help that it all kicked off in holiday season which is how it always is (GF the same) - sod's law and all that. Anyway humble apologies for not being a bit more accessible/on the ball in the last few weeks. We are almost all back at full strength now and generally at your disposal .

So here's our very quick poll - please fill it in (just the once please). It won't gain you entry in any competitions to win a family holiday outside of school holidays but it will most certainly influence what we do next.

Many thanks.

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StripeySuit · 03/09/2009 10:42

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LIZS · 03/09/2009 10:46

p48 - written by LH again with a bit more comment than previous. Still not sure the quotes work well out of context

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wotzy · 03/09/2009 10:53

The Sun could follow suit in their Suns and Daughters? Um.
MP could be as rude as she liked then.....

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wheresmypaddle · 03/09/2009 10:54

Having completed the poll I am wondering how practical it would be for MN to approve the content and have editorial control of any DM article?

With the best will in the world MN HQ will not be able to do this in such a way as to please everyone- there are bound to be differences of opinion as to whether they should have approved a particular thread/post or not. This in turn has the capacity to turn into a long running problem between MN posters and MN HQ.

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Heathcliffscathy · 03/09/2009 11:06

god you know what? fuck you emily andrews (auther of the what to wear at school pick up 'article') get a proper fucking job you leech.

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pofacedandproud · 03/09/2009 11:12

I dreamt about MorningPaper last night. I had been released from prison and she was my probation officer. And she kept breaking into song. As you were. [Hi Soph]

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midnightexpress · 03/09/2009 11:14

Hear hear sophable.

Unfortunately we are all probably doing wonders for the DM online circulation figs by clicking through to see what horrors they've committed this week.

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morningpaper · 03/09/2009 11:14

"And God knows I want to break freeeeeeeeeeeeee"

I DO burst into song all the time

You know me so well

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pofacedandproud · 03/09/2009 11:17

You were a very, er, uplifting.

How many journalists are now making their living from copying and pasting MN now? MP you are desperately needed in the tabloids broadsheets, it is true.

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HerBeatitude · 03/09/2009 11:31

I find Emily Leechperson's article rather more shocking in that she doesn't credit MN at all, she passes it off as her own stuff.

Anyway I don't really care. Would prefer DM journalists to cut and paste directly, rather than put their own spin on it.

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beanieb · 03/09/2009 11:35

"That 'definite no-nos' bit is lifted entirely from a blog that was linked to on the original thread, isn't it?"

is it? Hmmmm - now that's not very nice.

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beanieb · 03/09/2009 11:36

We get the Daily Mail in work, am I legally allowed to type it all out onto mumsnet? Or is that breaking the Daily mail's Copyright?

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HerBeatitude · 03/09/2009 11:37

oh is it?

Still not her then is it? I'm not sure she's made that crystal clear (though i did just skim it, I don't usually read the DM that carefully )

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TheEgoHasLanded · 03/09/2009 11:42

i honestly can't believe you are still talking about this....?

the world could have been invaded by aliens and i swear you wouldn't notice....

beanieb,...you are obsessed!

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beanieb · 03/09/2009 11:45

I'm just irritated and annoyed at the overall stupidity shown by several people over this whole thing.

End of the day it makes no personal difference to me except that I would stop posting here if the Daily Mail became mumsnet sponsors, but I like a good 'ishoo' and when people are being particularly dumb over an isshooo then I can't help myself

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stillfrazzled · 03/09/2009 11:50

Wot got said pages ago:

"Why should the DM have first call on this just because they did it without asking?"

"If I wasn't already here at MN I would be put off joining this site, if I thought it was allied in some way to the Daily Mail" another VERY good point."

Vote to send out an approved version to ALL papers to spike the DM's guns. But if that can't be done, then vote to tell DM No Thanks.

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JodieO · 03/09/2009 12:09

I voted under no circumstances

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sandcastles · 03/09/2009 12:10

That latest article has painted us all as shallow, self obsessed women who have no idea how to raise children.

The comments are awful...how much longer are we going to be fodder for abuse?

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JodieO · 03/09/2009 12:12

I voted under no circumstances

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Botbot · 03/09/2009 12:22

Arse, can't find the link to the 'definite no-nos'. Definitely saw it in a blog though, exactly as it appears in the DM article. Unless it's Emily Andrews's blog, of course (giving her massive benefit of the doubt there).

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QuintessentialShadows · 03/09/2009 12:24

I have voted. But I do not think the column should be written or controlled by somebody employed by MN. That would be pretty pointless, as it would just be like a roundup printed in the daily mail. By all means, run the content through MNHQ, but if it should have any value or interest for the reasons given by Justine in her OP, it has to be instigated by the DM, and not let DM just be a mouthpiece for Mumsnet.

They should of course publish the zombie plan thread in its entirety.

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madameDefarge · 03/09/2009 12:29

I have been sitting on my hands, but really, Th Ego, you are surprised that beanieb still cares? The issue is still current, it has not been resolved, so engagement is still necessary.

And do try not to be rude, the tone of the threads has mostly been very civilised, and this is not AIBU.

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TheEgoHasLanded · 03/09/2009 12:35

you're right MD...sorry beanieb...

while i'm here...

i think it's sad that some of you would be put off MN because of its association with the DM...mumsnet is a parenting forum first and foremost, parents read the DM, it would be a shame if they were made to feel unwelcome on here

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beanieb · 03/09/2009 12:42

aw, honestly I don't mind people saying I am obsessed. I AM! I have always been called 'a dog with a bone' over these kinds of things. and I do cringe when I catch myself banging furiously at the keyboard

I do agree that DM readers should be welcome here but at least on here there's the opportunity to properly challenge prejudice from posters. As a forum it does a good job of pulling people up when their views are extreme or unfair. I don't think mumsnet would get the opportunity to do that in the mail or in response to what they steal from here.

The only people who can do that is MNHQ and they don't really want to I think.

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TheEgoHasLanded · 03/09/2009 12:54

beanieb...you are cool..

i'm your typical DM reader....believe women should stay at home until their dc are at school...etc..etc....

infact, until i came on MN i'd never spoken to a lesbian....and now i've spoken to her ...i really like her!

you see...you have changed me...

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