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Would questioning Mumsnet’s moderation in this way lead to a poster being banned?

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SiteStuffQuery · 16/05/2026 04:29

Could you confirm if you would ban someone for the following please:

Poster reports post for racism.

Mumsnet says it doesn’t meet their definition of racism, so the post will stand.

Poster replies that if that sort of comment is allowed, maybe the definition or the rules need looking at.

Apparently the poster was then banned. I am thinking there must be more they aren’t saying but maybe not. They say they have been a very normal poster for years, no issues.

I know you can’t talk about specific posters here, but just generally, would questioning moderation in this way result in a ban? Or would there need to be more to it?

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ChestnutSquash · 16/05/2026 04:47

It has done in the past.

frenchnoodle · 16/05/2026 04:50

Yes, things like that have been done in the past.

MyCottageGarden · 16/05/2026 05:12

That’s ridiculous if that’s true, almost communist ruling. Since when is merely questioning the rules, a banning offence?! Provided the poster wasn’t abusive of course, in which case that’s different.

Makemeinvisible · 16/05/2026 06:42

If someone has been banned for questioning the rules then that is pretty shocking.
Tbh the moderation seems very hit and miss and it's hard not to wonder sometimes about some of the decisions.

MyPithyPeer · 16/05/2026 06:46

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JaneJeffer · 16/05/2026 13:52

Try it and see

ohyesido · 16/05/2026 14:08

I think it’s very unlikely the poster was banned for questioning the rules. Is it possible that some abusive language accompanied the questioning of the rules, and that might be the reason?

SidekickSylvia · 16/05/2026 15:12

I know someone who was banned for questioning the rules, about 5 years ago. It was on the FWR board, many GC posters were being suspended/banned, and my friend asked if it was appropriate that the moderator on that board was male. She refreshed the page and poof! Instant ban. She's never attempted to return.

ChestnutSquash · 16/05/2026 15:37

SidekickSylvia · 16/05/2026 15:12

I know someone who was banned for questioning the rules, about 5 years ago. It was on the FWR board, many GC posters were being suspended/banned, and my friend asked if it was appropriate that the moderator on that board was male. She refreshed the page and poof! Instant ban. She's never attempted to return.

Yes. I remember that. It was due to confusion about the meaning of "monitors" (TRAs who hang around looking for posts to report) and
"moderators". The ban hammer was always poised ready for use back then.

Error404FucksNotFound · 16/05/2026 15:47

I know they have in the past said things along the lines of you dont seem to be happy here so dont let the door hit you on the way out (I paraphrase) .

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 16/05/2026 15:59

Arguing with mods is a longstanding problem. I mod on a Facebook group. Everyone thinks their situation is different/special/doesn’t meet the criteria.

You may feel fully justified, you may be fully justified, but arguing with mods isn’t the way to deal with it.

BeckyAMumsnet · 16/05/2026 17:27

No, we wouldn’t ban someone simply for reporting a post, disagreeing with our decision, or saying they think the rules should be reviewed. Posters challenge moderation decisions regularly, and we in fact welcome it, and it very much informs our thinking.

What we generally can’t do is discuss the details of our dealings with individual posters. That includes the history of an account, previous warnings, deleted posts, emails to MNHQ, or anything else that may have informed a decision.

The consequence of that is that a banned poster can present the situation in whatever terms they choose, while everyone else is only seeing the version they have chosen to share. That doesn’t mean they are deliberately misleading anyone, but it does mean the public version is unlikely to be the whole picture.

So, generally speaking, disagreement with a moderation decision would not get someone banned.

SiteStuffQuery · 17/05/2026 10:27

Thanks for answering. I presumed there would have to be a lot more to it and there was probably a history of issues.

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