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Announcement re deletion of Wig and Robe/Judge Flounce threads

871 replies

carrie (mumsnet) · 13/01/2005 13:15

Dear mumsnetters,

We are now able to shed a bit more light as to what actually occurred re the Wig and Robe/Judge Flounce episode. We are pretty sure (having received a confession of as much) that, as some of you suspected, W&R/JF was a non-lawyer masquerading as a QC. Given this knowledge we have deleted the relevant postings and banned the user from the site.

If nothing else the whole business is a salutary reminder that you can never be completely sure that folks are who they say they are and neither should you necessarily completely trust the advice, especially "professional" advice, posted on mumsnet.

As a result of some concerns raised by you we are looking into making parts of the site, the swaps and weight loss clubs for example, something that operates via mumsnet HQ so that people's addresses are not being circulated. If anyone has any other suggestions then please [email protected] or post them here and we promise to consider them.

We?d also remind folks that when organising meet ups you should take the same precautions you would when meeting anyone from the net - make sure you meet in a public place and that others know where you are going.

Having said all that, it would be a shame if this relatively rare occurrence of someone pretending to be someone they are not changed the warm, supportive, welcoming and caring atmosphere on mumsnet - and we're confident that you won't let it!

Thanks for all the supportive and helpful emails we've received from so many of you.

Carrie, Rachel and Justine

OP posts:
Potty1 · 13/01/2005 16:32

The bereavement thing makes me feel really sad and a bit angry actually. She wasn't the only bereaved mum who posted on it, others who have lost children, like Mattysmum gave her sympathy and if she made it up its just vile.

vileandputridCOD · 13/01/2005 16:34

right I am going to find out how my fat fighters are

wild · 13/01/2005 16:36

better change your name back
they may take libertis
with vile putrid snacks

fairyfly · 13/01/2005 16:38

I decided whoever it was hadf too much time on there hands and loved the prison library. Especially manuals on law and joke books. If you get my drift.

doggiewalker · 13/01/2005 16:38

very poetic Wild!

FineFigureFio · 13/01/2005 16:39

mieow where was the return address?

sparklymieow · 13/01/2005 16:39

on the parcel

weightwatchingwaterwitch · 13/01/2005 16:39

Aloha, you're not the only one re Cilla on the bereavement thread. I didn't post either. No offence to anyone who did!

doggiewalker · 13/01/2005 16:40

I didn't. Couldn't cos it all seemed so false, but can see why some people were taken in at that time of year as well.

PuffTheMagicDragon · 13/01/2005 16:40

Initially, I believed everything she said was genuine because of the bereavement that was mentioned. When it became clear that she was not a barrister, I then took the view that it is someone who is mentally ill.

Posing as a QC and dispensing legal advice is very wrong, especially as the people asking on here were often really up against the stops and in a vulnerable position. I'm glad a stop has been put to it.

I'm still of the view that the person in question is mentally ill, and COULD have been bereaved in the way mentioned. Hence I was very uncomfortable about the speculation that continued (mainly because the threads couldn't be deleted) about where the person lived, how scruffy the house was and whether or not they needed to rethink their clothing.

If everything they posted on here is a lie, then that would be very depraved and they'd have deserved everything thrown at them, but I think it might be a bit more complex than that.

JanH · 13/01/2005 16:41

Puff??? I didn't see anything like that here?

FineFigureFio · 13/01/2005 16:42

i mean where in the country mieow

munnzieb · 13/01/2005 16:42

so if she's fake how did she know so much about law? (apart from the DNA thingy)?

sparklymieow · 13/01/2005 16:42

north wales...

munnzieb · 13/01/2005 16:44

I didn't think ppl here knew ur addresses?? i've not sent mine to MN or can they get the address form ur computer internet address thing? (is it easy to do that? - not that i'm bothered on here, but incase of a yahoo chat room or something is it easy for ppl then?)

vileandputridCOD · 13/01/2005 16:47

I wnat oit o
knwo what on earth he/she was going to do regarfing hte s wales meet up!

vileandputridCOD · 13/01/2005 16:48

"i want to know"

FineFigureFio · 13/01/2005 16:48

omg

munnzieb · 13/01/2005 16:51

ooh there was a s. wales meet up, where when? y wasn't I invited? (is it the cardiff one?) I don't think i'd go now thru fear JF would be there given the circumstances i'd rather not anyhow. is it safe to CAT ur address on these meet up things?

doggiewalker · 13/01/2005 16:56

munn there was a thread about a s/wales meet up but I don't think it had been finalised. Jofeb04 bumped the thread a couple of days ago.

ks · 13/01/2005 16:57

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doggiewalker · 13/01/2005 16:57

r u a cardiffian then Munnzieb? What does Munnzieb mean?

northerner · 13/01/2005 16:59

Must say I am very intrigued by all of this and WOULD love to know who is behind all of this, and why.

I never had much to do with W&R and thank god never asked for her advice.

But I must say WELL DONE to those who smelt a rat and exposed the scam. I'm gald MN has memebrs like you around.

doggiewalker · 13/01/2005 17:00

well said Northerner.

munnzieb · 13/01/2005 17:00

oh right, will have a looksee then, no i'm not in cardiff. It's just a name I thought up which was different where did urs come from?