My reasons for repeatedly stating my lack of consent are moral as well as legal.
I have been posting here for 7 odd years and a large percentage of my posts are about the gender distressed teen in my
life. Most of those posts have been made in solidarity with other mothers/fathers/aunties/grandparents/family friends as we try to find ways to support our beloved children who are grappling with gender non conformity, body hatred, eating disorders, autism, adhd, social anxiety, emergent same sex attraction, bullying and academic struggles.
Mx Eden Palmer wants to use these posts (made in LGBT Children and Feminism sections) to construct some sort of half baked witch-hunt to prove theyself, what? A saviour of vulnerable children whose parents cruelly deny them medically unnecessary breast and genital amputations?
My love for my child is not a Hate Crime.
I am grateful to Mumsnet for hosting a conversation of mutual support between parents and sympathetic non-parents, women’s rights campaigners and concerned professionals.
I consent to Mumsnet using the content I have generated in ways that either sustain Mumsnet’s financial viability, thus keeping the site free to use for other mothers like me, or in research projects that Mumsnet has expressly approved in the belief that the research is helpful for parents and/or women.
I do not consent for Aston University to use any of the content I have authored, at all, for any reason, but I especially object that Aston intends to use content created by MN users to defame Mumsnet the Company and to accuse me and other users of committing Hate Crimes (or contributing to Hate Crimes committed by others).
I post here because I LOVE my child and want my child to grow up in a healthy body. My child is not allowed to smoke, drink alcohol, get a tattoo, stay out after 10pm or get a backy on a friend’s motorbike. My child is encouraged to eat whole foods and be active, be cautious around animals and always keep in mind a safe route home.
The injustices currently inflicted on gender distressed children are coming from the adults who lie to them and claim that changing sex is possible, those who normalise parental alienation and encourage teens to run away to glitter families, those who convince children that becoming a life long medical patient is desirable.
I posit Eden Palmer and Aston University are, in their pursuit of using Mumsnet for this PhD thesis, going to become complicit in the medical abuse of children and vulnerable adults. Smearing responsible and loving parents, professionals who fight for adequate safeguarding and women’s rights campaigners as transphobes and hate crimers will actively harm GNC & T identifying minors, not help them.
If Aston publish any of my words under any of my (possibly 100+) user names I will not hesitate to explore legal remedy, or alternatively make the whole lot of you look like absolute arseholes in a tabloid newspaper, whichever feels most satisfying
at the time.
Not wanting my child to amputate her breasts is not a hate crime.