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"boomer" thread

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Maireas · 28/08/2023 20:29

You've hidden this evening's offensive, ageist thread, stereotyping "boomers". Will this be deleted? Can we have a robust response to ageism on MN?

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CaptainMyCaptain · 29/08/2023 18:19

WarOnTheSlugs · 29/08/2023 17:31

** https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2023/aug/29/rishi-sunak-used-helicopter-for-trip-from-london-to-norwichh*
Born 1980. Just saying. Perhaps focus on him and his mates instead of people living on a small pension in social housing or a home they struggled to buy.

🙄

Generational economic and social analysis by definition isn't about specific individuals. Why is that so hard to grasp? Classic whataboutery.

No. Just saying that the wrong people are being blamed here and the Millenials are now in charge. I'm not blaming all young people (Rushi Sunak is young to me).

C8H10N4O2 · 29/08/2023 18:32

SadOrWickedFairy · 29/08/2023 16:23

@WarOnTheSlugs

The Boomer Generation or more correctly Baby Boomer Generation covers those born after the Second World War 1946-1964.

If you did campaign to redesign the public systems we have like pensions and healthcare to make them sustainably funded, back when it could have been done 30+ years ago,

30 years ago was 1993 meaning someone eligible to vote would have to have been born in 1975, 40 years ago was 1983 meaning someone eligible to vote would have to have been born in 1965 - both dates outside the Baby Boomer Generation.

Someone born in the 1950's would be part of the Baby Boomer Generation and would have commenced working in the 1970's - you clearly have zero idea of what life was like then.

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Oh I wouldn't worry, the same poster upthread claims boomers elected Thatcher despite the fact that in 1979 a sizeable chunk of them couldn't vote, a sizeable chunk more didn't vote (historical problem with young voters) and the dominant vote then and in 82 was "greatest generation".

Sweeping generalisations when that supports the "old people are all rich bastards who destroyed the world", anecdotes and alternative reality when they don't. Pointless arguing with it.

CurlewKate · 29/08/2023 18:51

I do find it depressing that whichever generation is younger than me (can't remember the names) have successfully watered down the feminism that gave them their freedoms with the 3rd wave sex positive bullshit

C8H10N4O2 · 29/08/2023 19:19

AuntieJoyce · 29/08/2023 17:21

Just to add that part time workers did not gain the legal unequivocal right to join their employer’s pension scheme till 1994.

No indeed, one of the many ways in which women were discriminated against in the workplace. Far more boomers grew up in poverty (absolute, not just relative) whilst millennials on average had a much higher standard of living. But we can ignore all that because a proportion of boomers and gen X got onto the property ladder which was itself a historical glitch which will pass down to their children and grandchildren, assuming its not used in care costs to save the next generation's taxes.

Its disappointing to see @MNHQ buy into the "richest generation" trope when its measured very much on static property and wealth disproportionately owned by men and the top third and from which women and minorities were disproportionately excluded.

Which is of course why it needs class analysis, not lazy, broad brush generalisations. Population demographics is fine for planning at high level - numbers of school places, public housing planning, town planning etc but utterly rubbish for developing policy detail or policy applied on individual levels.

TheAverageJoanne · 29/08/2023 19:24

Brefugee · 29/08/2023 15:32

btw, i just reported it off the back of your link (after hiding that thread the other day because it was just too much)

the post has gone now

No it hasn't I clicked on the link and it appeared.

WarOnTheSlugs · 29/08/2023 19:35

sunglassesonthetable · 29/08/2023 17:24

Of course that is most! What do you think "most" means?

I'd be looking at more like 80%.

🤣

WarOnTheSlugs · 29/08/2023 19:37

Maireas · 29/08/2023 17:29

Those responses are not ludicrous.

And that response to the economic data and facts is exactly why people are unimpressed with Boomers, in general.

sunglassesonthetable · 29/08/2023 19:37

And that response to the economic data and facts is exactly why people are unimpressed with Boomers, in general.

My mags is shite granted but that statement is not true .

sunglassesonthetable · 29/08/2023 19:39

Who are All these people who are unimpressed with Boomers generally?

I don't know them in my world.

There's a couple of ranty folk on here but I don't feel it.

WarOnTheSlugs · 29/08/2023 19:39

No, it's not. You admitted that it's anecdotal. You don't know everybody aged 55-77 on order to evaluate their personality or morals.

No. I made one specific comment based on my own experience and caveated it that it was of course anecdotal. Whereas almost all of my other posts have been based on well documented research and indisputable economic realities. Yet, unsurprisingly, you zeroed in on this one comment about a personal experience that I explicitly stated was anectotal and quoted just that part of it out of context. Hmmmm...

sunglassesonthetable · 29/08/2023 19:41

What "fact" is it that people are unimpressed with boomers "generally "?

@WarOnTheSlugs

WarOnTheSlugs · 29/08/2023 19:41

Oh I wouldn't worry, the same poster upthread claims boomers elected Thatcher despite the fact that in 1979 a sizeable chunk of them couldn't vote, a sizeable chunk more didn't vote (historical problem with young voters) and the dominant vote then and in 82 was "greatest generation".

I've not mentioned Thatcher once in a single post (except this one to respond to yours!) so again: you're wrong.

WarOnTheSlugs · 29/08/2023 19:42

sunglassesonthetable · 29/08/2023 19:41

What "fact" is it that people are unimpressed with boomers "generally "?

@WarOnTheSlugs

You appear to have misread my comment.

sunglassesonthetable · 29/08/2023 19:43

would you mind clarifying it? @WarOnTheSlugs

WarOnTheSlugs · 29/08/2023 19:44

MenopauseSucks · 29/08/2023 17:38

Selling of the gold reserves...?
Wasn't it Gordon Brown that was the worst offender in 1999?

Yep. Gordon Brown is also a Boomer. He is 72 now.

traytablestowed · 29/08/2023 20:04

sunglassesonthetable · 29/08/2023 19:43

would you mind clarifying it? @WarOnTheSlugs

@WarOnTheSlugs must be utterly exasperated by now. You misread her post. She has tried, diligently and patiently, to explain the frustration that many people feel towards "Boomers" by using facts and statistics to illustrate the ways they have benefitted, as a whole, from inter-generational inequality at the expense of younger generations and how their voting patterns have, as a whole, directly contributed to this inequality. You can read her posts if you want further clarity, they are written very clearly.
As a "millennial" myself I can attest to the fact that the frustration comes from a reluctance from some "boomers" (including some of this thread) to admit or acknowledge this, even in the face of overwhelming evidence. It is, as @WarOnTheSlugs has pointed out, akin to gaslighting.

sunglassesonthetable · 29/08/2023 20:11

Thanks @traytablestowed

I didn't want the sermon on the mount just one very specific sentence I had obviously misconstrued.

It was asked in good faith.

But you know, keep on with the lectures.

In my RL nobody gives a shit how old you are and or what societal trends you lived through.

A kind of blanket Boomers = whatever, is just nonsense. The same as any other prejudice.

traytablestowed · 29/08/2023 20:27

"A kind of blanket Boomers = whatever, is just nonsense. The same as any other prejudice."

@sunglassesonthetable but that's the whole point - it isn't prejudice that we're talking about here. It would be prejudiced to say "all old people are lazy and selfish" or whatever, but to state facts - for example referencing the historical voting pattern of a generation as a whole, referencing the well-documented impact on wider society - is literally just stating facts.

It's important to acknowledge and discuss these things, both in order to take logical steps to address them and also to prevent them from reoccurring.

WarOnTheSlugs · 29/08/2023 20:31

@traytablestowed thank you. It has been exasperating and frustrating. Some people seem very blinkered and impervious to facts and data and seem determined to take everything as a personal insult rather than consider the broader picture.

IClaudine · 29/08/2023 20:41

but that's the whole point - it isn't prejudice that we're talking about here. It would be prejudiced to say "all old people are lazy and selfish" or whatever, but to state facts - for example referencing the historical voting pattern of a generation as a whole, referencing the well-documented impact on wider society - is literally just stating facts

Of course it is prejudiced and like most prejudices, it makes no sense.

By your reckoning, someone born on 31st December 1964 is responsible for voting in the Tories (apart from between 1997-2010) and hogging all the wealth etc. because they are a Boomer. Someone born on 1st January 1965 isn't because they are part of Generation X.

It is ridiculous.

sunglassesonthetable · 29/08/2023 20:48

you. It has been exasperating and frustrating. Some people seem very blinkered and impervious to facts and data and seem determined to take everything as a personal insult rather than consider the broader picture.

Oh please.

Of course they take it personally!!!!

They are 1 actual person with a birth date, and you are reeling of facts and figures as if it's their responsibility.

Shit happened. Just like it's happening now.

And if you can't see past data to actual real people's lives, you're colossally missing the point.

Kendodd · 29/08/2023 20:50

WarOnTheSlugs · 29/08/2023 13:18

Did you campaign to get any of the necessary policies to prevent the current structural issues that face young people being allowed to escalate to this situation: where taxes are extremely high, public services are abysmal and social mobility barely exists? Did you campaign for change to the state pension ponzi scheme back when it would have been affordable to do so, when the demographic timebomb was already foreseen and well-known? Did you campaign for energy security and food security policies, investment in infrastructure, building of new reservoirs, upgrading of water infrastructure? Did you campaign against the introduction of 9% additional tax for anybody doing higher education? Did you campaign for high taxes so that some could be invested in a fund for the pensions and healthcare and social care that a large cohort with rising life expectancies were known to be going to require?

If you did then you're not personally to blame.

Or did you just sit back and enjoy the low tax, low cost environment and the infrastructure the generations before you built that wasn't even being adequately maintained? And now believe that you are entitled to receive the £400k more in public goods and services over what you paid in (on average) while your children struggle to fund basic living costs? Do you accuse younger people who are funding and trying to fix the huge mess your generation made of being "entitled" (epic gaslighting when that happens).

Nobody is saying specific individuals are to blame. But as a cohort there is collective responsibility for the environment and infrastructure and institutions and services and economy that you leave behind for future generations. As custodians. And the absolute refusal to accept that as a generation this particular generation are taking out far, far more than they have contributed and - despite most of the problems being entirely foreseeable and indeed foreseen - have left a catastrophic mess for those younger than them, is depressing and disingenuous and the main reason why there is a lot of anger from younger people. Particularly when they then try to claim that we are the ones who are "entitled". 🙄😆

I'm at the very tail end of the boomer years.
I agree with you, we have a lot to answer for.

sunglassesonthetable · 29/08/2023 20:51

Crack on with "the historical voting patterns "of a few generations or actually
ask a person for their lived experience.

You literally sound like an A1 chat bot.

sunglassesonthetable · 29/08/2023 20:53

You know what ? there are many many generations that have "a lot to answer for. "

IClaudine · 29/08/2023 21:00

Kendodd · 29/08/2023 20:50

I'm at the very tail end of the boomer years.
I agree with you, we have a lot to answer for.

Yes, all the progress that was made in LGB rights, womens rights, employment rights, battling racism, the beginning of the environmental movement..

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