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stillbirth and neonatal death board.please?

143 replies

HijHij · 17/04/2022 22:25

Can we have a specific stillbirth and neonatal death board
All the miscarriage posts seem to be early loss and bereavement feels to be adult bereavement.

What about the babies who never had a chance to just be?

OP posts:
ginslinger · 18/04/2022 15:12

I support

SockFluffInTheBath · 18/04/2022 15:15

@flashbac

Yes definitely. A miscarriage and a stillbirth are two very, very different things.
This.
FluffyFluffyClouds · 18/04/2022 15:17

I support this - on the Bereavement board currently it's very clear that late pregnancy/neonatal bereavement is a very different experience - it needs its own space.

Rosesandblossoms · 18/04/2022 15:18

Supportive

Andouillette · 18/04/2022 15:21

I 100% support this. Not suffered this terrible loss myself but I know several people who have.

dudsville · 18/04/2022 15:24

Having only ever miscarried at 12-14 weeks myself, and knowing someone who had a stillborn at something like 30 weeks, I can see how very different these experiences are. I support women having a place to discuss this.

H0twaterbottle · 18/04/2022 15:28

I support this. ❤️

MrsWobbleTheWaitressIsTired · 18/04/2022 15:28

This is a brilliant idea.

PegasusReturns · 18/04/2022 15:28

I’d be very supportive of this. When I lost my son 13 years ago MN was a life saver. I mean that literally. At that point I was able to access fabulous support from women who’d trod my path.

I know this won’t be a popular perspective but for a number of years I tried to play an active part in the baby loss threads but eventually became overwhelmed by the mums wanting support for an early miscarriage. It’s a loss I’ve also suffered but it’s very very different and it was too much emotional labour expended at people who had no idea about my own loss.

Please please establish a place for late/neonatal loss.

SGChome20 · 18/04/2022 15:28

I support this 100%

xxmyheartxx · 18/04/2022 15:30

@flashbac

Yes definitely. A miscarriage and a stillbirth are two very, very different things.
100% this
TwittleBee · 18/04/2022 15:31

I found so much support on MN when our son died in NICU. A specific board would hopefully help provide others with even more support if they also experience death of a baby Flowers

JovialNickname · 18/04/2022 15:32

I support it too

yogacurl · 18/04/2022 15:33

I can totally see why you'd want to cut down on the number of sections as many barely get any use. but this one feels like a no-brainer.

(In a way you'd hope that it wouldn't have high levels of traffic either, but would be super-meaningful to those posting there.)

LovelyQuiche · 18/04/2022 15:44

I’d support this
I’ve had a miscarriage and a stillbirth and both were very different experiences with different support required

moominbellaa · 18/04/2022 15:45

I'm in support of this too

maryberryslayers · 18/04/2022 15:47

Not something I have experienced but I very much support it for those who have.

NewBlueGoo · 18/04/2022 15:50

I would have loved this 7 years ago when I lost my daughter.

TodaysFishIsTroutALaCreme · 18/04/2022 15:51

I support this too

LAS123 · 18/04/2022 15:53

Agree 1000%

AchillesPoirot · 18/04/2022 15:53

J would also support this.

toomuchlikemyusername · 18/04/2022 15:55

Totally in support of this.

3kidsareenough · 18/04/2022 15:55

In complete support of this

ElliePhillips · 18/04/2022 15:55

My best friend went through this and it was heartbreaking to see her pain.

I support this idea too.

Timide · 18/04/2022 15:56

+1