I live in a village about 3 miles from Debenham - think the commute to Bedford, even just twice a week, is a long way, as mentioned up thread traffic on the A14 round Cambridge is dreadful at rush hour. Debenham is a bit of a drive from the A14 though. We love our village and the area in general, only half an hour from the coast (Aldeburgh), 20 mins from Woodbridge, and trains to London from Ipswich take just over an hour.
Both my children went to Debenham High School and did really well, but it is only up to Year 11, so one went to Farlingaye (Woodbridge )for 6th form, the other to Northgate (Ipswich). Debenham has quite a large catchment area.
I work from home, broad band is currently slow but adequate (I do on-line training using join.me/skype) but fibre broadband is being rolled out gradually in the local villages.
There is a Drs surgery in Debenham (with other surgeries in the same practice in Otley and Grundisburgh) and we have not had any problems getting appointments etc. We go to Ipswich for any hospital treatment, dentist etc. Debenham has a small Co Op, plus butchers, bread shop, flower shop etc, bigger supermarkets in Ipswich, Stowmarket, Woodbridge and Framlingham. The latter two are great for small town, varied high street type shopping.