I looked up what the abbreviations i see on here mean like DH, DD, DS etc. etc. And I gather the 'D' stands for 'Dear' like like referring to someone as dear husband for example as DH?
The thing I don't understand is when people on here use that 'dear' abbreviations for people they don't particularly like or actually actually dislike. Like people saying DMIL (I think that's right? or whatever it is anyway) meaning 'dear mother in law' when the person they're talking about isn't actually 'dear' to them in context of what they actually say about how they feel about them. That's just an example. I'm not here much but I've just seen it a couple of times similar to that so was just wondering.
With people who are actually 'dear' to the the person then I can obviously understand it. But I don't get why people would use that abbreviation on people who aren't actually 'dear' to them. It's like it takes away any meaning of the word 'dear' so why add the 'D' in the first place if it's not actually the case/not needed? Surely not everyone is 'dear' just because they have a pronoun which bares some relationship to you like family members you don't actually like. The abbreviation isn't for me personally in general just because I wouldn't personally speak like that. I just don't get some instances of people using it though? How often ahem you seen this? how do you use it? Why? When did it come about? thanks.