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Weird post deletions

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BeyondASpecialSnowflake · 02/09/2016 17:29

Can I clarify - is telling someone they are wrong or are patronising you considered a personal attack? I wouldn't say so, but I interpret things wrong sometimes!!
I ask because there seem to be some weird deletions around...??

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PurpleDaisies · 02/09/2016 17:33

You can definitely tell people you disagree with them as long as you don't do it in a way that's a personal attack.

You are wrong because X, y, z fine.
You are a total bitch and wrong, not fine.

YouAreMyRain · 02/09/2016 17:38

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BeyondASpecialSnowflake · 02/09/2016 17:39

Well that's what I thought, purple. But I was reading a thread earlier and nothing jumped out as breaking guidelines, just people disagreeing. I see it again and all of a sudden it's like Swiss cheese!!

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usual · 02/09/2016 17:40

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YouAreMyRain · 02/09/2016 17:41

Ok, I thought personal attack meant name calling, I just want clarification

BeyondASpecialSnowflake · 02/09/2016 17:41

^^ example there of the type of posts.
I've certainly somewhat vociferously given my opinion before without deletion, so have I just been 'lucky'?

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PurpleDaisies · 02/09/2016 17:42

I must have totally missed that-which thread?

I think telling people that they constantly pop up on threads effectively to make trouble probably does count as a personal attack so I could see why that might get deleted.

usual · 02/09/2016 17:43

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BeyondASpecialSnowflake · 02/09/2016 17:43

How is it a PA? I'm actually genuinely confused Confused
I can see it isn't nice, but I've certainly seen many, many posts like that stand before. Did they all break guidelines too?

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PurpleDaisies · 02/09/2016 17:44

I can see it isn't nice, but I've certainly seen many, many posts like that stand before. Did they all break guidelines too?

Probably, but they might not have been reported.

BeyondASpecialSnowflake · 02/09/2016 17:45

If that post to usual is a PA, then surely that scuttley comment is?

Wtf hq. I am lost.

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BeyondASpecialSnowflake · 02/09/2016 17:45

Mn will cease to exist is snarky comments are banned! Grin

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BeyondASpecialSnowflake · 02/09/2016 17:46

Black and white guidelines would be so much easier to navigate.

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IfTheCapFitsWearIt · 02/09/2016 17:48

Its a personal attack, because its a character assignation on a poster.

usual · 02/09/2016 17:48

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PurpleDaisies · 02/09/2016 17:49

beyond I think this thread is a mistake and you should ask for it to be deleted. I've reported it as a thread about a thread.

I'm surprised you can't see that what was written was a personal attack.

BeyondASpecialSnowflake · 02/09/2016 17:52

Wtf usual? There were loads of deletions, not just that one! Why would I start a thread to have a dig at you when I didn't even post on the thread - I was just reading it

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BeyondASpecialSnowflake · 02/09/2016 17:53

Purple. I am autistic and I find some things bloody difficult to interpret.
Fuck me though - this is an absolute car crash!

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kua · 02/09/2016 17:54

Somewhat ironic given the quoted thread

BeyondASpecialSnowflake · 02/09/2016 17:54

If a "character assassination" counts as a personal attack then there we go. It's not in the bloody guidelines though.

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usual · 02/09/2016 17:55

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PurpleDaisies · 02/09/2016 17:55

beyond if it's helpful, criticising the opinion is fine, criticising the poster themselves isn't.

In the example youaremyrain has used the poster is being criticised for being a pain on multiple threads. That's an attack on them.

PurpleDaisies · 02/09/2016 17:56

Character assassination woyld definitely come under the umbrella term "personal attack".

IfTheCapFitsWearIt · 02/09/2016 17:59

What else would a character assignation come as? If you pull someone apart bit by bit thats pretty personal.

IfTheCapFitsWearIt · 02/09/2016 18:01

*assassination