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Netiquette: bringing previous threads into current discussions

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ImNotThatGirl · 02/04/2016 11:52

Having been a long term name changing MNer but also a user of other forums for many years, I've always pondered on this one. On MN, the netiquette seems to be that you don't bring up previous threads/posts on a current discussion. I understand that it's frowned upon to use minute details as a stick to beat people with but what if it's relevant? I'm going to use a random example that hopefully is not too emotive. Imagine there is a person posts prolifically on school threads, stating that they are anti-home education and they post it so often, that they're on every thread and they are known for their views for years. On another thread, they casually mention that they've been home educating for 10 years. Would it be bad form to say something on the current thread?

I'm just curious. On other forums, there is a casual approach to this but on MN, it seems to be less common.

IonaMumsnet · 02/04/2016 15:36

Hi there ImNotThatGirl and others. It's a bit of a grey area this one. It's not strictly against the rules but we tend to think it's a bit unsporting.

Largely that's because mostly when this happens it's really a sneaky bit of troll hunting of the 'oh, got 16 grandchildren have you? Funny that coz yesterday you were 19 years old and pregnant with triplets' variety. Generally we prefer folk to come to us and point it out so we can check it out behind the scenes.

Having said that, we obviously don't expect no one ever to mention anything from across threads. If someone you chat to regularly is on saying they've had a dreadful day, it's perfectly acceptable to pass comment of the 'oh goodness and didn't your tortoise have worms yesterday, too?' type if that's the case.

Essentially if it isn't done with a slightly malicious head tilt and isn't going to derail the thread we don't mind, but if in doubt, it's usually best left.

DawnMumsnet · 04/04/2016 16:55

We're all hoping for that day, ImNotThatGirl. Wink

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