Hello IonaMumsnet, thanks for your reply.
It's not my job or within my gift to tell you how to run your own site and I hope it didn't come across that way.
I'm a bit puzzled by some of the points that you've made because I cannot see the difference between somebody who is a) new who joins to be goady and b) a regular who name changes to be goady. I know there are both a) and b) on this site and quite frankly, I have more 'respect' for a) because it's far worse to post alongside somebody who is a 'regular' on issues, whatever they are and for them then to change name JUST to goad is cowardly and, to coin the MNHQ phrase, 'beyond the pale'.
A regular having an 'off day' is just that, having an 'off day'. Why do they need to change to post threads just to inflame and upset? Can't they just post in their normal name, be told to stop being a dick, apologise and carry on posting with perhaps a bit more measure? Why do they need this 'protection' from MNHQ when it comes at such a cost to others who have to ready the purposely posted goady threads - and not realise that it's possibly their day to day alongside fellow posters who are doing it? That makes no sense to me at all. It doesn't matter what is going on behind the scenes and I'm not going to even ask but I don't see why this pervasive cowardice is tolerated and even expected.
For all the negativity and wanting to shy away from 'naming and shaming', I would expect any regular worth their salt to hold their hands up if they're called on goady name-changing. If it were me, far from being angry or sad about it, I'd be embarrassed and wouldn't do it again.
If it were clearly stated that goady name-changing will be revealed, the practice would stop, I'm convinced of that.
Thanks anyway for taking the time, Iona. I think that HelenMumsnet is more scarey than RebeccaMumsnet anyway... >>> runs