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We’d like to try a Mumsnet Giving week - tell us your thoughts/ which projects you'd like to support

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JustineMumsnet · 02/05/2014 11:08

Now then: without wanting to gush, one of the great pleasures of toiling at Mumsnet is watching how much you all give to one another - in terms of advice, humour and friendship, obviously, but very often in material ways, too.

Over the years, we've made a few ad hoc donations to causes and charities close to Mumsnetters' hearts, but I've been pondering how we might formalise the goodwill and try to do a bit more. And I thought it might be an idea to give a Mumsnet Giving Week a go.

Here's how it could work... (and do bear in mind that this is a first pass and we're very much open to suggestions on how to improve/refine the idea; if it works well, we'd like to make it an annual event). Together, we settle on some deserving causes that could do with our collective support: maybe you're trying to bring a community garden back into bloom, for example, or want to start a support group for parents of children with SEN, or are trying to raise funds to buy a piece of vital equipment for a good cause. Or there might simply be a deserving small charity that you want to support.

Once we've agreed who we'd like to back, we'll then have a week in which we promote and highlight them, and in which Mumsnetters can donate as much or as little as they choose, via a Yimby crowdfunding page (here's a bit more about Yimby.com, a new crowdfunding community for social good).

At the end of the week, MNHQ will match your donations (although I think we'll have to set a £25k limit for match funding, just in case one of you turns out to be Bill Gates and drops a million - which of course would be marvellous, but would also leave us struggling to meet the payroll).

If this all sounds ok to you, we'd like your suggestions for projects we should support on this thread. They don't have to be registered charities; indeed, our feeling is that national charities don't tend to struggle for exposure and are probably not in most need of our support. Instead, we'd love to use this as an opportunity to give smaller organisations and community projects some airtime. And because we also want to make sure that the causes are ones that existing Mumsnetters have settled on, we're only going to shortlist projects suggested by members who are registered as of now. (Apologies to newbies who join after this point, but there's always next year.)

After this thread's been up for a bit, we'll go through it, pick a shortlist of five and ask the Mumsnetters who submitted the ideas to start a Yimby crowdfunding page in support of them. We'll then - with much fanfare - announce the start of the Giving Week, during which we'll encourage everyone to donate. And at the end of the week, we'll match what's raised.

Do hope you think this is a good idea - please shout if you think it's lousy or we've missed a trick... Otherwise, please submit your nominations for deserving projects below.

We’d like to try a Mumsnet Giving week - tell us your thoughts/ which projects you'd like to support
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Sarahbo74 · 06/05/2014 21:25

I'd like to nominate Reuben's Retreat. A charity founded in August 2012 in memory of a beautiful boy by his inspirational parents. Aiming to open a retreat on the North West countryside where families with children suffering life threatening and life limiting illness can build memories together, they also provide bereavement counselling already for parents and sibling who have lost precious children and the retreat will include a bereavement and counselling centre.

jillycats · 06/05/2014 22:07

I'd like to nominate the Down's Heart Group. They are a small national charity supporting parents of children with Down's syndrome who also have a heart defect. My daughter has Down's Syndrome and very complex heart defects, they have been a great source of information and support.

littlemiraclespeterborough · 06/05/2014 22:09

I would love to recommend Little Miracles (was on children in need last year as part of DIY SOS) I am biased as I started that charity after my son was born severely disabled but any money would be used to set up other branches to replicate the success that we have had in Peterborough and to support more families (in 4 years in Peterborough we have supported over 3000 children and their parents!)

WonderWomansSister · 06/05/2014 22:14

Ooh yes, have also re-read and see that we'll be supporting a number of causes. Woolly Hugs as well then please! If you've only seen the thread titles, you may only have an inkling of how fantastic Woolly Hugs is.

As well as bringing MNers together to make squares to turn into blankets for bereaved MNers, Woolly Huggers also knit blankets for critically ill babies at the Brompton Hospital (Angel Hugs), colourful blankets for ill children at Yorkhill Hospital (Little Hugs) and beautiful comforting blankets for children with cancer in partnership with World Child Cancer (Billie's Blankets). There have also been two FaceBook auctions raising funds for Winston's Wish and Mind.

All of these beautiful crafts are created by MNers and everything is voluntarily (and often hilariously) coordinated by two utterly brilliant and selfless MNers - KnottyLocks and RatherBeOnThePiste. You can find out more here beta.woollyhugs.com and on Facebook here m.facebook.com/pages/MNWoollyHugs/349028448480855?fref=ts&_rdr

littlemiraclespeterborough · 06/05/2014 22:21

I would love to recommend Little Miracles (was on children in need last year as part of DIY SOS) I am biased as I started that charity after my son was born severely disabled but any money would be used to set up other branches to replicate the success that we have had in Peterborough and to support more families (in 4 years in Peterborough we have supported over 3000 children and their parents!)

TakeMeUpTheNorthMountain · 06/05/2014 22:35

That's a shame katiemumsnet not many local charities will have a UK bank account when they are not in the UK.

Shame.

Nennypops · 07/05/2014 00:22

SOS-SEN. MN already refers parents of children with SEN and disability to them for much-needed advice and help in getting their children the support they desperately need, and they are absolutely invaluable.

Nennypops · 07/05/2014 00:25

SOS-SEN. MN already refers parents of children with SEN and disability to them for much-needed advice and help in getting their children the support they desperately need, and they are absolutely invaluable.

MrsMarigold · 07/05/2014 08:46

Corrupt political regimes, drought and poverty mean millions of women and girls in the developing world cannot afford sanitary protection and are bedridden when menstruating. They are missing out on education and employment because of this.

Dignity! Period aims to help some of these women.

Initially I thought the Mooncup would be a better cheaper, longer term solution but a woman from Dignity! Period explained that many of these women lack clean running water and couldn't sterilise it sufficiently. Tampons are regarded with suspicion in some rural areas, which leaves sanitary pads as the preferred option.

Even if every Mumsnetter just donated enough for one pack of sanitary towels it would make a massive difference.

MrsMarigold · 07/05/2014 08:48

Not sure why the link doesn't work but if you go to www.actsa.org and click on Campaigns you will see Dignity! Period work.

TheHouseatWhoCorner · 07/05/2014 09:02

My nomination is for Demand. Www.demand.org.uk

They design and manufacture bespoke equipment to help transform the lives of people with disabilities.

From helping people to carry out everyday needs easier, such as bathing, eating, getting around. They'll also help people to enjoy sport and leisure activities that were previously inaccessible. And they have the expertise to design or adapt equipment needed to aid recovery from accidents.

Brilliant charity, focusing on the individual's needs. I've visited their workshop and seen how they've made a trike for a child with very difficult mobility, a gadget that clips a straw to the side of a cup to help people drink without the straw wiggling about right up to neurologigical chairs for the rehabilitation after stroke.

Thanks MN, this is what I love about the site.

mothermirth · 07/05/2014 12:28

I'd like to nominate Kith and Kids, a charity that provides support and respite for people with a learning disability or autism.

I volunteered for them years ago and found it a life-enhancing experience, which has shaped my attitude and outlook. Smile

RueDeWakening · 07/05/2014 13:36

Please can I nominate pop n grow, who provide adapted clothing free of charge for children in NICU or hospital that can accommodate feeding tubes etc.

Also, Lisa's Stars who provide clothing, blankets etc for stillborn babies to wear (hospitals don't often provide this).

Can't link at the moment as I'm on my phone, will be back later with links.

sarahmollygrace · 07/05/2014 14:20

please support actsma.co.uk/ they do a an amazing job! please visit there web to read there story xx

1Rutlandmummy · 07/05/2014 16:28

My suggestion would be Action on Pre-eclampsia.

action-on-pre-eclampsia.org.uk/

Action on Pre-eclampsia (also known as APEC) aims to raise public and professional awareness of pre-eclampsia, improve care, and ease or prevent physical and emotional suffering caused by the disease.

Pre-eclampsia is something that most people have heard of and are aware about during their pregnancy but there is so little funding into pre-eclampsia research.

Having been through it myself, I know that it's the most scary and frightening experience, not to mention incredibly dangerous for both mother and unborn baby.

rubyslippers · 07/05/2014 16:36

I would like to nominate Haven House Children's Hospice -it's an amazing place looking after life limited children from birth to 19 years

Just imagine what it must be like to know that your child may not live to see adulthood. Now think about having to cope with that emotion every day whilst trying to deal with the additional practical and financial pressures that would be placed on your family.

This is the reality that thousands of families across London and the Home Counties have to face every year. Haven House Children’s Hospice knows how difficult it is to be told that your child has a life-limiting or life-threatening condition as we have provided care and support for 400 such families across North and East London, West Essex and East Hertfordshire since we opened in 2003.

By combining specialist nursing care for seriously ill children with help for the wider family, Haven House delivers a sense of support and trust, and, most importantly, can ease the burden of care.

The services at Haven House include day care, overnight stays and end of life care for children whose needs are complex. There is further assistance for the family including:

Toy home loan
Special yoga
A community play specialist
Music therapy
Coffee mornings for parents/carers
Support group for siblings
Pre-school children day care
Complementary therapies
One-to-one and group counselling

Every year it costs £2.5 million to fully resource the hospice, of which we need to raise 70% from voluntary sources.

I know all the families who use the services would be delighted if Haven House was chosen

www.havenhouse.org.uk

snorris · 07/05/2014 18:17

I would like to nominate Youth Cancer Trust please. They provide support and free activity holidays for young people (aged 14 to 30) living with cancer or any malignant disease, from anywhere in the UK and the Irish Republic, or who are patients of any UK hospital. I have a friend who ran 10k last year in aid of them and is training to do it again this year.

MrsDeVere · 07/05/2014 19:09

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snorris · 07/05/2014 20:06

Despite them being local to me, I hadn't either until last year when I sponsored her.

RueDeWakening · 07/05/2014 21:39

Back with links:

Pop n Grow

Lisa's Stars

Awks · 08/05/2014 10:34

I'd like to nominate SSAFA's Norton Homes. Imagine if you are the wife or partner of a soldier and your worst fear actually happens. You get the knock on the door and someone tells you to sit down. You hear how the person that you love has been dreadfully injured by a roadside bomb and is being flown back to Birmingham. You have to immediately go there not knowing anything. Can you imagine how awful that would be to have to stay in a strange city, in a hospital room, with noone to talk to? A woman told me that when this happened to her, she cried herself to sleep in a Travelodge room every night for 3 weeks.

Thankfully SSAFA's Norton Homes are there now and when the worst happens, families have somewhere to go now. Watch this video and look at the dad's face. It makes me tear up every time. www.ssafa.org.uk/how-we-help/housing/ssafa-norton-homes/

Legwarmersforboys · 08/05/2014 14:18

I'd like to nominate 'Small Steps' Huntingdon

Alison set up the group after her daughter was born & found there were no groups in the locality.

They offer support for families and children with Down syndrome. The group fund raise tirelessly I often see them bag packing the local supermarket.

www.facebook.com/pages/Big-Journeys-Begin-with-Small-Steps/1432405763641238

We’d like to try a Mumsnet Giving week - tell us your thoughts/ which projects you'd like to support
kafkesque · 08/05/2014 15:05

Anything Autism gets my vote because it's a hidden disability.

Ambitious about Autism or National Autistic Society??

JoC1979 · 08/05/2014 15:47

I’d like to nominate Asthma UK – I saw all the coverage this week about people dying from asthma and I was really upset about the fact that so many of the children who have died from asthma could have been saved. According to the charity every 10 seconds someone has a potentially fatal asthma attack which I find just terrifying. I don’t think any child should die from asthma – my children don’t have it but I know people who do and I find it unbelievable that people still die from it especially children. The charity is also campaigning for children to be allowed to access a spare emergency inhaler in schools if they have an attack and can’t find their own. I think it’s really important to choose Asthma UK so they can continue their work to prevent families from losing a much treasured child to asthma.

LineRunner · 08/05/2014 15:50

Women's Aid.

Just for the amount of times they are recommended on Relationships here on MN. And used. And relied on.

They are amazing.

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