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We’d like to try a Mumsnet Giving week - tell us your thoughts/ which projects you'd like to support

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JustineMumsnet · 02/05/2014 11:08

Now then: without wanting to gush, one of the great pleasures of toiling at Mumsnet is watching how much you all give to one another - in terms of advice, humour and friendship, obviously, but very often in material ways, too.

Over the years, we've made a few ad hoc donations to causes and charities close to Mumsnetters' hearts, but I've been pondering how we might formalise the goodwill and try to do a bit more. And I thought it might be an idea to give a Mumsnet Giving Week a go.

Here's how it could work... (and do bear in mind that this is a first pass and we're very much open to suggestions on how to improve/refine the idea; if it works well, we'd like to make it an annual event). Together, we settle on some deserving causes that could do with our collective support: maybe you're trying to bring a community garden back into bloom, for example, or want to start a support group for parents of children with SEN, or are trying to raise funds to buy a piece of vital equipment for a good cause. Or there might simply be a deserving small charity that you want to support.

Once we've agreed who we'd like to back, we'll then have a week in which we promote and highlight them, and in which Mumsnetters can donate as much or as little as they choose, via a Yimby crowdfunding page (here's a bit more about Yimby.com, a new crowdfunding community for social good).

At the end of the week, MNHQ will match your donations (although I think we'll have to set a £25k limit for match funding, just in case one of you turns out to be Bill Gates and drops a million - which of course would be marvellous, but would also leave us struggling to meet the payroll).

If this all sounds ok to you, we'd like your suggestions for projects we should support on this thread. They don't have to be registered charities; indeed, our feeling is that national charities don't tend to struggle for exposure and are probably not in most need of our support. Instead, we'd love to use this as an opportunity to give smaller organisations and community projects some airtime. And because we also want to make sure that the causes are ones that existing Mumsnetters have settled on, we're only going to shortlist projects suggested by members who are registered as of now. (Apologies to newbies who join after this point, but there's always next year.)

After this thread's been up for a bit, we'll go through it, pick a shortlist of five and ask the Mumsnetters who submitted the ideas to start a Yimby crowdfunding page in support of them. We'll then - with much fanfare - announce the start of the Giving Week, during which we'll encourage everyone to donate. And at the end of the week, we'll match what's raised.

Do hope you think this is a good idea - please shout if you think it's lousy or we've missed a trick... Otherwise, please submit your nominations for deserving projects below.

We’d like to try a Mumsnet Giving week - tell us your thoughts/ which projects you'd like to support
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MrsDeVere · 05/05/2014 13:44

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ouryve · 05/05/2014 14:56

I recently discovered the Challenging behaviour foundation www.challengingbehaviour.org.uk/

I've downloaded a few of their info sheets and they are absolutely brilliant. I've been doing as much as I can to point people in their direction, as, while some of the larger charities tend to be embroiled in politics and tendering for government contracts, the support this charity gives gets right down to the unfortunate nitty gritty of everyday life for so many of us. So, I think some support form the giving week would be a nice way of saying thank you for providing such good quality, sensible, detailed advice for free.

ouryve · 05/05/2014 14:59

The PDA society is fab, too :)

babybabybabyoh · 05/05/2014 16:54

What an incredible idea and many worthy causes who will benefit so much from MN's and MNetters generosity :)

There is a wonderful charity in North Yorkshire called Independent Domestic Abuse Services who support victims of domestic abuse. I know they struggle to find funding to support their work with children which is critical considering children don't have a say in the families in which they live and sometimes have no choice but to witness some really awful things. Their work involves helping the children to keep safe, giving them a voice and helping them to move forward. It also involves supporting teenagers who are in abusive relationships to recognise that they deserve better. This charity will always be very close to my heart.

www.idas.org.uk

DreadlocksMadeMeHappy · 05/05/2014 17:59

New Name, been here a while though...

I'd like to nominate Sandwell Women's Aid

As with all women's aid charities, they are desperate for cash to help the scores and scores of women they help. They specialise in women subject to human trafficking and South Asian Women in need, escaping violence. They help ANY woman that comes to them in need.

I know Womens aids type charities are a cause close to mumsnetters hearts and really hope that this one is selected. Women raising money for other women whose chips are well and truly down would be so fitting.

Fingers crossed.

doublechocchip · 05/05/2014 18:25

I second Millie's Trust www.milliestrust.com/ a great charity.

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Lifestooshorttosleep · 05/05/2014 20:17

Hi, this is a great idea and many worthwhile causes. This one is a little diferent and may not fit the bill, but I thought I'd include it anyway. I am working with a group of 8 Girl Scouts (we're based in Germany as Girl Scouts Overseas) who are fund raising a total of €20,000 to fund themselves to go and stay at the World Girl Guide Centre in Pune, India where they will undertake a 10 day sustainable project working with the local community. A big part of helping the girls own personal development is the fund raising! Between now and July 2015, each girl has a personal target of €1000 for which they are babysitting, selling cookies, doing sponsored events etc. We aim to raise the balance through group fund raising. I passionately believe every young person should have the chance to do something potentially life changing, to push themselves well out of their comfort zone and that this is especially important for young women if we truly want to improve gender diversity in the world. These girls are aged 14-17, amazing they even want to be in Girl Scouts these days. Anything mumsnet could do would be a huge boost. Thanks for the consideration.

nobeer · 05/05/2014 21:25

I'd like to recommend Epilepsy Sucks UK esuk.uk.com/ which fundraises to provide expensive anti-suffocation pillows free of charge to sufferers of epilepsy. Having a seizure while sleeping can cause death by suffocation, so these pillows not only provide peace of mind, but also save lives.

NorksAreMesssy · 05/05/2014 22:02

Brilliant idea, MNHQ, and great that you are able to match funding.
This is also working as a great platform for people to talk about their favourite charity, which may not have been visible before.

Heartily endorse support for WOmens Aid - but I am also very happy to support some of these amazing smaller groups as well.

Flowers
flingingmelon · 05/05/2014 22:07

Can we consider starsinthesky.co.uk ? They are a dating agency for people with learning difficulties and do a fantastic job on tiny money.

flingingmelon · 05/05/2014 22:09

Sorry, messed up the link;

www.starsinthesky.co.uk

kaffkooks · 05/05/2014 23:28

I'd like to nominate the Batten Disease Family Association www.bdfa-uk.org.uk

This story is the reason why: www.yorkshireeveningpost.co.uk/news/latest-news/top-stories/leeds-parents-heartache-over-fears-children-may-not-live-to-see-their-teens-1-6581547

ancientbuchanan · 06/05/2014 00:18

Another vote for DifferentTogether, as the effect of having an AS parent us devastating for children and casts a long shadow, and there is virtually no research or support or trained counselling

I'm in two minds about the next one, because it is mainly aimed at the religious community where it was founded, I think, ( though I may be wrong), Camp Simcha, which aims to support children and families where the children have life threatening diseases. It provides fun days and camps for the children, it provides places where mothers can go, sleep, have a facial knowing that their child is having a lovely time. It provides a befriender for the child and advice 24/7.
I met a/ the fundraiser on a train, and she was immensely impressive. It sounded like what I would have loved and so needed when Ds was ill. It helps in very practical ways, with the things that you just can't do or face or have the energy to cope with.

And finally, Thornhill House in Gt Longstone derbyshire. It was founded by someone whose husband was at home for years, dying of motor neurons disease. It has become a small village based old people's home, based in the community, supported by la and private fees and charity, where you can go when you are elderly and still be part if your village and community. Everyone knows you, and you know everyone. You don't need to leave your community to go to the local hospice, 16 miles away, or even to the next town, Bakewell. It is z godsend for people with elderly parents, worried about the next stage, not wanting them to have to tear up roots.

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AngryPrincess · 06/05/2014 09:23

Mary's Meals is a great one.
They give one meal a day to children in schools, so as well as food the children are encouraged to get an education. It costs £12.20 to give a child one meal a day for a year. A year! Only £12.20!
I just watched their film Child31 and it was heartbreaking and moving.
Was just thinking about setting up a screening of it.

Here's the link.
www.marysmeals.org.uk/

MarcusAurelius · 06/05/2014 09:29

Womans Aid/Refuge for the amount of women who appear on here in desperate situations.

SarahMumsnet · 06/05/2014 09:54

@kinkytoes

Just a suggestion but if the aim is to help smaller local causes then maybe you could select two or three? It would encourage donations from a broader spread of people if the locations and areas of benefit were varied, and smaller charities would be just as grateful for a slice of a huge pie as they would for the whole thing. If you see what I mean.

Also think it'd be great if the cause(s) chosen had a definite link to MN. For example a MNer has benefited directly from said charity thanks to the advice of another?

Hey kinkytoes - we're actually hoping to settle on five causes in the end, for precisely the reasons you mention Smile

In terms of the causes having a link to MN, as we've never tried this before, we weren't sure what people would nominate, and I think at present we don't want to rule anything out. But obviously if a MNer has personal experience of an organisation's work and can champion it on that basis, it would definitely stand out.

turgiday · 06/05/2014 09:54

I second Women's Aid. Not only do they help so many MNers and their children, but they are also a charity that struggles massively for donations. I would prefer MN to support a charity that struggles, rather than a relatively well supported one.

I also think the publicity for Women's Aid would help MNers by raising their profile and reminding women that they can help them.

SarahMumsnet · 06/05/2014 10:00

@Upandatem

Re-read, you'll choose/promote five, then match the funding for all up to max of £25k overall, is that right? Good approach if so.

Yes, Upandatem, that's the plan - in order to spread the support around.

KatieMumsnet · 06/05/2014 10:26

@mrscog

I think this is an amazing idea, and would like it if alongside the charities chosen for money giving, if there could be a list of local projects which need volunteers? This could also potentially tie in with Mumsnet Local to encourage the charities which MNers are already involved in to list in the volunteering section?

Can't wait!

Hi Mrscog At the end of the project we can certainly pull together a page of all the good causes mentioned, linking through to their sites and how to get involved. Lots of the local sites already mention charities and volunteering and again we can share this page with our local eds to see if they can list specific branches and local contacts.

KatieMumsnet · 06/05/2014 10:31

@SarahMumsnet

[quote] Bicnod I have a question - is it only UK charities/groups or can we nominate organisations working overseas as well?Smile

Sorry Bicnod - just saw your question after replying to TakeMeUpTheNorthMountain - again, we'd be totally happy; just checking with Yimby. They may all be away for the bank holiday now, but I'll post as soon as I hear back from them Smile[/quote]

Hi there

We've checked in with Yimby and we are able to support good causes that operate outside of the UK, but all the causes must have a UK bank account to receive funds.

KatieMumsnet · 06/05/2014 10:52

@Solasum

Is there any way this could be divided into national and local? So a few 'big' causes that MN can match (I vote WA and the cakes) but also a list by region so people could also donate to a cause very local to them? Administered through the local pages maybe? That way many many more causes could be supported, and presumably some of these charities would be very grateful of even small amounts.

Hi Solasum Sorry - should have included you in my reply earlier. The plan is to pull together a page of all the good causes mentioned, linking through to their sites and how to get involved. Lots of the local sites already mention charities and volunteering and again we can share this page with our local eds to see if they can list specific branches and local contacts.

Flopsygrowsup · 06/05/2014 11:02

I would like to nominate Emyr Owen LATCH Branch in Porthcawl in Wales. It was set up by my bf, her husband and eldest son after the death of their youngest son. LATCH is the welsh children's cancer charity and they wanted to do something in memory of Emyr which recognised the support they had received but also had a local angle to recognise the amazing support that the local community had given them all too both before and after Emyr died.

In the relatively short time since he has died they have set up an annual memorial walk for anyone who has lost a child and people who support them, run a annual ball and there have been many other smaller local events. With the funds raised so far they have managed to buy, equip with specialist equipment and furnish a mobile home in a holiday resort near Porthcawl so that families can spend valuable time together without having to worry where the money is coming from or if their child will have what he or she needs.

I cannot begin to tell you what a difference it makes to the families but some money to help them provide more support, equipment and research would be fantastic.

hanette · 06/05/2014 11:13

Hi

I would like to nominate the Choir With No Name. It's a fantastic organisation that runs choirs in London, Birmingham and Liverpool for people on the margins.

www.choirwithnoname.org/

Watch this fab video if you have 3 minutes, it's brilliant

Choir members meet each week for a rehearsal followed by a home-cooked hot meal (many have experienced homelessness or other problems which means this meal is important). The aim is to provide a boost from singing and social links/community with the other members. Many have little or no contact with family so this is a big part of the choir. Birthdays are celebrated with cakes each month. The choirs perform at concerts which gives confidence and a sense of achievement. They're well worth watching.

They are amazing and make such a difference on a shoestring.