Hiya Millie1, so so sorry I didn't recognise your name ! Now I remember our old chat about SLRs etc. and your old Olympus !
Re: dw - second bout of mastitis is just about over (she's at the docs now as she's still sore), and I think she's going to begin winding down the expressing and we'll increase the formula...
dd's milkspots are on the way out, so soon my angel model will be back to work, pmsl !
Re: Lightboxes....
If you "just can't get rid of this 'I want an SLR' feeling." then, sadly, I feel your destiny is already cast. You NEED an SLR, and the 'manual' control it offers to give you what you want. To give you that ultra-low shutter lag, the ability to tweak shutter speed to capture sporty moments, to play with your aperture control and knock the background out etc. etc. etc. You SHOULD therefore get the 350D.
I have used the 350D briefly and the timing / shutter speed / responsiveness etc. were fab. It has the same DIGIC II processor as its big brother and the shots WILL BE GREAT.
Personally, after literally months of surfing, trying out the 350D and the 20D in a few shops etc. I think I am going to get the 20D because the grip felt better in my big hands, I could get my fingers between the grip and the lens better, the shutter lag is even lower (shouldn't tell you that, LOL), and the manual over-ride control is even easier than the 350D (on the 350D you button press into AWB / ISO etc. then have to adjust and then press set using the 4 way pointer thingy. On the 20D you have a joystick turny dial thing which makes it a tiny bit more 'old school'. The images from it, however, will be VERY similar to the 350D, of that I have no doubt. I think autofocus accuracy and speed is supposed to be a little better, but tbh that's really for gearhead fiends as the 350D is lightning fast anyway.
I've kept my film camera for nearly 18 years and I thought I'd treat myself (with family chipping in etc.) as I turn 35 on the 24th ! Like you, I've been mulling this decision forever, especially as I think gettting the 350D (and selling on in a year or so if necessary) is the better / more sensible decision IYSWIM, but sod it, you only live once and in 10 days I will be closer to 70 than I am to zero, LOL !!!
(plus think of the money you'll save on Venture etc. !!!!)
Lenses still undecided.
HTH
puddle - poor shutter lag ruins photos. It's a right pain. DW's uncle had a 700 at the birth, and I used it for a couple of shots. Timing / lag seemed INFINITELY better than my old Ixus 400. I think if you don't need uber manual control, you'll be very happy with it.
The dpreview site I linked to will probably have a (very detailed) review already, and it will allow you to compare that model to, say, an earlier Ixus or another camera you may have in mind.
HTH