I don't know which sling to buy for dd. We have been using a moby which I have found really comfortable and ideally I want something that is as comfy and easy to use. DD won't really go on my front anymore, and its quite difficult to do anything with her on the front anyway! I have been considering a patapum or a mei tai, but haven't seen either in real life. Are mei tais really comfortable? I guess i am used to loads of material over the shoulders which is what makes the moby so comfortable. LIkewise the patapum. I need soemthing that is easy to get on and off by myself, that I won't be worrying that she will fall out if she's on my back! Any suggestions?