Not sure if there's an etiquette for asking about Christmas gift ideas on MN, as I imagine there's a lot of it going on at the moment.
But if not....can anyone help? My 21 year old nephew has been in a relationship with his girlfriend since January this year, they are a really lovely couple, they clearly adore each other and it looks like it's there to stay. They both work unsocial hours and spend most of their time together, either at my DB and SILs house, or at her parent's house, effectively living together whilst saving for a deposit to get their own place. Until recently, I have always got him and his 15 year old brother the same monetary value for Christmas, but with the change in his circumstances from a single young man to a very attached adult, it seems the right time to pare back on the gifts a little. Not least because it wouldn't seem right to now get him the same kind of stuff that he's always had. I am thinking of getting a gift that can be shared with his girlfriend, I have spent a fair amount of time with them both over the year, so feel I'd like to get her something, but don't wish to make her feel uncomfortable. I'd rather get them something decent together, than a stocking filler for her that I'd have to guess at.
I'd like to spend around £50 but haven't got a clue what I can get them. I don't want to get 'housey' gifts whilst they don't actually have their own place, and I know for sure that she hates chocolate, and he doesn't drink alcohol (apart from that strange entity, she's a lovely girl 😂).
Please tell me someone has a brainwave!