I need a stage 2 or 2+3 car seat for ds who is about 16kilos. We have seen some that have their own straps so you anchor the seat with the seatbelt as for a stage 1 seat, then the child uses the seats own straps to hold them in.
But we want one with a decent headrest as ds often falls asleep in the car, and all the ones with their own straps have rubbish rests that mean ds would flop sideways too much .
The ones with good headrests don't have their own straps, but use the seatbelt to go across the seat and child together.
Here's the dim question - does this mean that the seat is totally untethered, and in a collision if the child is thrown forwards surely the weight of the seat will push the child harder into the belt and cause more damage? Is that how they work or am I missing something really obvious?