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Arms reach co-sleeper - anyone tried them?

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ChocolateHobnob · 05/01/2008 11:34

Has anyone tried an Arms reach co-sleeper? Am tempted to buy one as DD is going to outgrow her basket soon and I dont want her to go into her own room (cot) yet... Any reviews of this? Thanks.

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ChelleKelley · 05/01/2008 21:15

Hi Chocolate,

I have one and have used it with two boys-well, and am on the second one at the moment. . .James just turned one before Christmas. I ADORE these beds. I never ended up using a 'proper cot' for my first son, though I had one, and didn't even bother to put up a cot this time for James. He will stay in the co-sleeper until about two when he will go from the co-sleeper into a proper bed.

I am so enthusiastic about these products, and think they are such a godsend, and such great value, that I was actually accused of working for the company on another board! So I don't know what to say here, other than I can answer questions from a 'mum who has been there' either on here or via email if you prefer.

I honestly don't think I would have breastfed for long without one, and I certainly wouldn't have gotten as much sleep. And as I have to travel a bit, being able to take my babies' 'home' with me wherever I go has been such a blessing. SO much easier. And as they last so much longer than anything else out there, I haven't had to switch beds every few months.

So, I will leave it there. . .I am a ringing endorsement for them, but if you have any specific questions, I would be happy to answer them on or off board!!

Chelle

ChocolateHobnob · 05/01/2008 21:27

Thank you for replying! My DD is seven weeks now. I know they're expensive but I gather they would last ages? I dont want to have to move her into her own room at 3/4 months when she outgrows her basket... also am bf and it would really be easier... just convincing myself to spend the money. Where did you buy yours?
Thanks!

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ChelleKelley · 05/01/2008 22:34

Hi Chocolate,

I don't think they are expensive at all, but that is my humble opinion . . .you get the full bed and mattress, a liner that acts as a bumper and even a fitted sheet, which, when you buy a wooden cot you have to buy the mattress and sheet and bumper extra. And because you don't need a regular cot if you don't want one, and you can use it for a bassinet and a travel cot and a play pen, I think it is a bargain! I saved a ton getting one and not having to buy all that other stuff, but that is only my opinion!!

I think if you are breastfeeding, it is a godsend. Matthew, my first, weaned himself at seven months, but I loved having him near me and so we co-slept for about two years. But James I think will never wean! He is a big boy and eats to match his size. I would never have gotten any sleep, nor would I get any now, if I didn't have him right next to me. I am in awe of women who exclusively breastfeed with more than one child and the baby in a room down the hall!

I got mine from the US where my sister lives while on a visit, but I know they are here now...google search and they are in many shops now. . .and I have sent so many of my friends (who have been jealous for years!) that I should get commission!!

They are very well made, too. I used mine with my first son until he went into his 'big boy bed' and it was only out of use for a few months before James began to use it again and it is still in excellent condition. And Matthew, my first was a JUMPER when I used it as a play pen and if he couldn't destroy the mattress and frame, I am certain not many could!!

I hope that helps. I envy you your dd. What a lovely age...James was always such a big baby I feel like I missed him being an infant. He went straight to a toddler!

If you have any more questions, please let me know!

Chelle

ChocolateHobnob · 08/01/2008 21:46

Chelle, quick question - it says on the websites that you should stop using the co-sleeper when the baby can roll over -- so isn't it dangerous for your son to stay in it till he's two?

I would like to get one as my DD is a crap sleeper and needs to be near me, but she's already 8 weeks and if it's going to be redundant in a few weeks it does seem expensive... if not, I agree, bargain.

Thanks!

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ChelleKelley · 09/01/2008 20:28

Hi Chocolate!

I am not sure why it says that. . .it certainly can be used for a whole long time! The sites also says that you can use the upper two levels up to 30 pounds and the lower level up to 50, so maybe they are talking about just when you can leave the baby alone in the co-sleeping configuration. But even then, there is a lip of two or three inches on the edge that is attached to the bed, so the baby couldn't roll out no matter what. Crawl out when they are pretty coordinated and strong maybe, but not roll. Maybe that was one of their VERY American 'don't sue me' kinds of disclaimers!

You have to use your head in that you have to lower the level when the baby starts to pull up, etc., and if the baby is crawling, you have to raise the side if you are not in the bed (for naps, etc.) but that is not hard to do. I just undo the strap that secures it to the bed on one side (not both), pivot it away from the bed and raise the side and there you go. But even then, it was a pretty long time before Matthew OR James got that coordinated. . .WAY past six months. But for co-sleeping, you just have to make sure that the level of the mattress matches their ability so they don't pull up and topple over the sides if you are asleep.

I don't know anyone who has one who has used it for less than a year. I just had to put mine down to the lowest level, but it came with leg extensions and you can buy more, so I raise it up a bit with that and though James is lower than the bed a bit, he is still within easy touching distance, and when he wants to feed, he pulls up and tickles me and I pull him into my bed and then he goes right back to sleep.

And there are other uses, too. . .it's as deep in the lowest position as a travel cot, so you can use it for that, which I do and love because the boy's were familiar with it from sleeping in it each night and the sight and sound and smell was 'home' to them wherever we go, so they just go right to sleep. Just before James was born, when I had to contain Matthew, I also used it as a play pen, which Matthew tried to destroy by jumping in it incessantly, so it definitely has other uses, too.

So, I think you can use it for a long, long time. And I still think I should get commission from the company!!

Chelle

ChocolateHobnob · 09/01/2008 21:35

Hi Chelle

I bought one today! Well I ordered one anyway. I'll let you know how we get on with it. It's a necessity for me as DD is hopeless at sleeping and seems best when closest to me. I'll let you know how it works for us when it arrives - I'm excited!

Thanks for your help!

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