I've decided that this time I'd like a sling mostly so I can do things around the house without having to worry about the baby's safety especially around my then two year old ds who is lovely but has a penchant for throwing things atm. I want one that has lots of support, I have large norks and my babies are usually around 8 pounds 10 ish as newborns. Any suggestions? Also when i've breastfed before it's had to be in the rugby hold position as this is the only way the other two would latch on. Is this possible to do in a sling? TIA.