I've just passed my test after a lot of lessons and I'm looking to buy a car. I'm 23, not a mum and not planning on being one any time soon, but most of the car forums I've come across have been mainly men and I feel a bit silly having 'pretty' so far up my list of priorities. I just want something safe, reliable and nice so I thought this might be a good place to ask. Budget would be round about £5000 but other than looking on Arnold Clark I have no idea what I'm looking for for my money. Could anyone suggest something that might suit me? What sort of age and mileage would you suggest?