Covert investigation Child Protection

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Please help me.... I urgently need advice from anyone who knows safeguarding procedures or has been through a similar experience, my child started primary school this week and I am convinced they have been assessing/testing her psychologically on her first day as part of an investigation. Last year a complaint was made against me to my daughter's nursery school (I don't know what the complaint was because no one will tell me due to confidentiality; only that a complaint was made) and I have had a year of covert investigation from them. I thought now that she had started a new school we would start afresh but I'm convinced they have been assessing her. Is this possible??? Is it correct safeguarding procedure??? I have never had a meeting to discuss a complaint against me, nor have I been visited by social workers/police/health visitor. This can't be happening.

good woman!

I may follow suit when ds4 has progressed through her 'care'.

OP there are lots of threads about the Nursery Bear. Here's one:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/1168197-to-think-that-having-the-bloody-class-bear-to-visit-should-be-banned

Red lines are common on playgrounds too.

There have been many sensible, sympathetic and understanding responses. How do you feel now?

OP, you've had some really good advice on this thread. You do sound very anxious and in need of some help and support.

Incidentally, the very first thing my dd told me after she started REception last year was that there was a yellow line in the playground she wasn't allowed to cross. The first thing she told me after starting Y1 this year was that she is now allowed to cross the yellow line. It was a big deal for her!

Do seek out some support, and good luck.

I have had anxiety issues as well and it's horrific.

The biggest part of the battle for me was accepting that my anxiety was based on an imagine fear. Once I accepted that, the anxious feelings still took a while to go as it becomes a habital way of thinking but I got there eventually.

I was convinced I was dying. I initally had good reason to worry about it but was given the all clear by the drs but thought they had just missed it. Then I thought that maybe I had some other horrible disease instead so it all started again, and again and again.

I got better though and you can too. You do need to see the dr again though.

Hello. We're going to move this thread to Other Subjects. We're sure AIBU is not the right place for it.

My dd's primary school has lines that children aren't allowed to cross. They separate adult (car park etc) area & children's areas.

Could these be the same as your red lines?