I've been putting off buying anything as I get a bit worried that it will tempt fate and things may go wrong once I start buying (as the last time I bought pregnancy books I had a late m/c on the same day). But now even my dh is starting to suggest that we maybe should plan for the eventuality that things will go ok and that we'll have a baby at the beginning of January (I think he's worried that if it comes early we'll have absolutely nothing).
So I'm going to get the minimum necessary so......what is the minimum necessary? I know I need a car seat, moses basket or equivalent, nappies, babygrows but what else is the miniumum I can get away with on the basis that I aim to breastfeed(the intention really isn't to neglect this poor child before it's born but I'm afraid the idea of going out and shopping as though everything's going to be fine scares me somewhat (although I'm too much of a stubborn cow to allow dh or someone else to go out an choose stuff)).