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Dating in my sixties: advice on a new partner with erectile dysfunction

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Jillybliss · 19/09/2026 23:57

My partner and I have split up, and I've been online dating. I'm in my sixties and would very much like to find a lovely man to be in a relationship with - I certainly didn't expect to be alone at this stage in my life!
I've had several dates with different men, but not met anyone special - no one that I've thought of as being a possible long term partner, and no one that I've wanted a sexual relationship with.
I've been chatting with a lovely chap for the last couple of weeks, he seems great, however he sent me a text this week saying that he'd like to be completely transparent with me ... and most women walk away when he tells them what he's about to tell me. He said that he's tactile, loves making love, always ensures that a ladies 'needs' are looked after ... but that he suffers from Erectile Disfunction.

I've now met him and we got on fabulously ... I've never come across E.D before - may I ask for advice from those of you that have, please? Do I run for the hills, how do others cope ... what do I do to please him if I decide to stay with him?
Thank you in advance

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BeeMyBaby · 09/10/2026 20:12

I've been with my partner for a year, he has ED, we are early 40s, and i was getting divorced when we met up after having a very active sexlife with my exh, who i had absolutely nothing in common with bar sex.
It was difficult to find ways to orgasm for the first few months, but we've worked out how to orgasm together despite the ED. Basically like dry humping but naked. He's such a nice guy and like others have said, its better having someone who is loving, and very willing and wanting to give me pleasure rather than having a hard dick and being an arse. My guy has various issues and I dont really want him to try viagra as theres been studies recently about health issues caused by even a little use. If i got really really desperate I might ask him to get a toy to use in me but at the monent we seem to have worked out whats good for us without anything additional.

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