Do you share sexual fantasies honestly with a partner or hold back?

[tanoshi]

When you share fantasies with your partner are you truthful or do you hold back?
There's no need to describe the fantasy, just wondering how honest we all are. With FWB I'm more honest but in a LTR a little reserved for fear of judgement.

We have just started. My DP of around 6 months has a complicated bit of trauma with sex so he’s a bit further behind than me. I believe he and his ex got very carried away with kink and it went too far and he’s worried about that happening again. Plus also I think he wants to experience loving sex not just kinky sex. So he asked to take it slow as he says if you do too much too fast you have nowhere left to go and it can get out of hand. Whereas I have had a fairly vanilla sex life and finally found someone who wants to be kinky with me so I get over excited. 😂

We have never shared any, I don't think it's possible after being together so long. Met late teens when I'm not sure fantasies were on any kind of a radar. I have absolutely no idea if DW has fantasies, I'm guessing she does but it would be out of character to start coming out with them now, particularly if it involved other people