So just as the title says- my sex drive is back with a vengeance. Separated from exh nearly two years ago. For the last 3/4 years of marriage my sex drive completely disappeared. I thought it was just an age thing I’m now 46. He was highly abusive physically and emotionally and at times sexually!! Pestering me for sex constantly and kicked off when i didn't want to. I gave in too many times to sex i didn't really want just to keep the peace . I always thought my age contributed to my lack of sex drive. Ive remained single since the split and taking time to process and heal after whats happened.
The last 6 months or so my sex drive has re woken especially around ovulation. Its so distracting at times it’s all i can think about. All those years i thought it was down to perimenopause when it had nothing to do with it! It was just the abusive bastard i was married too. Not really asking for advice, just wondering if anyone else has been in the same position. Im not really interested in dating at present, never had a one night stand so wont be looking for anyone to fulfil those needs. Otherwise Im very happy by myself.